—or should. No matter how compatible you are, living in conflict-free bliss isn’t love; it’s avoidance. But how do you argue in a way that’s not just having the same old fight every time? Knowing your fight styles—how each of you processes conflict—makes it easier to get a handle on your arguments and helps you stay neutral. My wife, Radhi, and I have completely different styles of arguing. I want to dive in and talk it out, whereas she wants to collect her thoughts and cool down a bit before we speak. I’m eager to find a resolution, while
