So your baby has reached the age of understanding, she can talk to you and understand most of what you’re saying... Why is it then that getting her to cooperate and do what you ask her to do (or stop doing what you don’t want her to do) is an impossible task?
In truth, it’s because shouting, nagging and threatening does not create a pattern of interaction that’s positive, and your toddler has no way of participating in this kind of interaction.
This is the time in your little one’s life when she needs to feel empowered. By giving her choices and involving her in some simple decision-making, she will be more inclined to give you her undivided attention and cooperation.
When you scream at your children or threaten them with punishment when they’re naughty, you are perpetuating a cycle of anger
