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Are We Wired to Compare and Despair?

IDEALLY, COMPETITION MOTIVATES US TO ACHIEVE. BUT IT CAN ALSO CAUSE US TO SETTLE FOR LESS THAN WE MIGHT OTHERWISE ACCOMPLISH.

How competitive are we? Very, if you consider the 200 participants in an experiment at Stanford University. They had to ponder a string of letters (RSLALHT, for example) and make as many words as possible (rash, salt, thrall, etc.). After each round, the researchers informed the participants that an unseen student with whom they’d been paired had beat them by making even more words.

Practically speaking, that didn’t matter: The participants would win a $5 Amazon gift card if they made 100 words in five rounds, regardless of how many the other player—who didn’t actually exist—made. Nevertheless, when allowed to change the difficulty of the fake player’s task, they gleefully seized the chance to make their letters mind-bogglingly hard to

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