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Clitoris is not a dirty word – but society's fear of it has disastrous consequences

People still tiptoe around the word as if the mere mention of something that exists purely for female pleasure is obscene
The famous ‘orgasm scene’ from 1989’s When Harry Met Sally. Photograph: RONALD GRANT

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Why do women fake orgasms?

It is a truth universally acknowledged that most heterosexual women have faked an orgasm at some point in their life. According to one survey, conducted by the trusty academic journal Cosmopolitan, 67% of women have pretended to climax.

There are lots of obvious reasons why women faux-gasm – they don’t want to hurt their partners feelings, for example, or they’re just tired and want to go to sleep. However, according to a another big

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