Show Me the Money: How to Protect Yourself in Gray Divorce

So, you have a long-term marriage. You had kids, bought your dream house, set up the investment accounts and even now have grandchildren. You are looking forward to your "golden years" to wind down and enjoy those put-off hobbies and trips.

You know that your relationship has not been filled with the same fireworks that existed in the beginning. You know that life dampened down the romance. Let's face it, who feels like putting on that sexy lingerie, lighting candles and sprinkling rose pedals on the bed after a long day at work? Especially since your day could have included taking the dog to the vet after cleaning up the vomit on the carpet; getting a flat tire on the way to the office, where your boss did not appreciate that the dog was more important than the meeting you missed; and finding out that your mother is getting kicked