The Runner Twin Flame Series

The time comes when all you want is to move on from this frustrating twin flame journey. You convince yourself that it is over — you can also run into new relationships — maybe have a family. Years can pass without hearing from your twin flame or physically having any contact. Sometimes you assume that a twin flame has completely forgotten about you. You can also go into new relationships if you find a suitable partner. From a running perspective, you can give up on pursuing a relationship with a twin flame but there is no forgetting how you feel the connection daily. It does not matter if you are sad or happy with someone new, your twin flame's essence keeps merging with yours uncontrollably. Sometimes memories of your twin flame bring smiles to your face when you are alone. Sometimes you are surprised by how deeply you crave contact compulsively. There is something unique and natural about the twin flame bond — you cannot fake it nor can you wish it away. It is rooted within you. It is embedded in the fabric of your existence. You carry the twin flame connection everywhere you go. When you dream of your twin flame, it feels as if they are with you physically. A twin flame connection is like an app running in the background of your life that keeps updating itself. Soon or later, there has to be a moment of confrontation and reconciliation with a twin flame if you have been running and chasing each other. Some people call it a reunion but I say it is more than just reconnecting with each other. I say this because a reunion with a twin can happen but you both choose to go your separate ways amicably. Sometimes when a reunion manifests, you might not be interested in pursuing a physical relationship but still honor your connection through the preservation of your friendship. I hope my perspective helps you. Stay blessed!

if it is a genuine twin flame connection, you both have a deeper understanding of your connection. You know that it is not your everyday romance. Whenever you chase a twin flame, you both go through an energy-purging process. The runner enjoys the chase because it triggers you to confront yourself to understand why feeling the connection scares you. The parties involved in the running and chasing phase don't view the situation objectively. There is no room for judging each other because you both don't know what came over you since you encountered each other. You don't believe you are a runner if you do not know what it is. You later on retrace your awakening process back to the beginning — to your twin flame to confront the situation. To heal, you must have closure. You cannot chase your twin flame away for good. Stay Blessed!

Twin Flames are always wondering what is happening to each other during the separation phase. These profound answers will enlighten you about the nature of the runner twin flame experiences. Below are some of the commonly asked questions by many twin flames. What does running mean in a twin flame relationship? Why would your twin flame be afraid of you? Why did your twin flame runners block or hide from your twin? Does a running twin flame have a lack of respect for the other twin flame because they run and don't care? What do twin flame runners feel in the bubble phase? On this journey, is it okay to communicate with your twin flame runner? Are twin flames usually not each other's type physically/emotionally? Does the twin flame runner still run even when the chaser isn't chasing? Are they running from themselves? Can your twin flame simply not love you or not be attracted to you? Running and chasing can switch many times over the years, but is the divine masculine typically the one that always runs even though they could have awakened and chased at some point? Is it normal for a "chaser" twin to just stop trying after the runner has a long period of avoidance? If your twin flame has trust issues because of being hurt by past partners and family members, how can you gain their trust? Why did my twin flame block me from everything? What is the benefit of letting go of my runner twin flame? Why are twin flame runners vulnerable and open at the beginning, then act like it's no big deal later down the line, after the initial bubble phase? Do you and your twin flame go through the same lessons while in separation? Does the runner twin flame feel the chaser surrender? How do you know or recognize hearing your twin flame's thoughts? Do twin flames normally run away at the first meeting, or do they stay and talk? Is an emotional connection a twin flame connection? Has anyone with their twin flame had very traumatic things happen to each other and still had a union after separation? Like we both did each other wrong. Can any runner tell their experience of when they first realized the love of a chaser and their journey including during separation from the chaser? When does the Twin Flame runner surrender to make them stop running and resume contact? More questions to be answered. I hope my perspective helps you to enjoy your twin flame journey. Stay Blessed!

The more I try to explain my twin flame experiences, the more I learn about myself: It is an ongoing self-rediscovery process. It is a learning journey you take within yourself. Understanding the twin flame connection is when you already are experiencing it because all twin flames know that you end up sounding delusional or crazy to anybody who is a non-twin flame. Another lesson I have learned is that it does not matter who contests your experiences: Being a twin flame benefits you. You experience everything within you. You are yourself — the twin flame journey is a battle that you have to win within yourself. You take a sacred journey within yourself to heal your inner child. You go through a spiritual awakening phase that brings you enlightenment. You suddenly are inspired to become the person of your dreams. You surrender to self-love to rediscover your authenticity. The twin flame awakening process is a new chance at creating a meaningful life. You crave to find meaning in your existence. It all starts with a twin flame walking into your life like they already belonged there. You feel disarmed by their existence that you surrender in every way possible. If you feel broken within, the encounter alone is healing enough to integrate every piece of yourself. It is like looking in the mirror — they show you your perfect self. The person that you must be. Your authentic self. On the other hand, a twin flame also shows you your darkest fears. You know you have to confront all the demons you have been hiding from within. If you have unconfronted pain — accumulated past pain that you shoved away. Trauma that you keep postponing healing. The negative energy you suppress and a suffering inner child, a twin flame brings it all to the surface to heal. It is up to you to open yourself up and embrace your Spiritual healing process or else you suffer due to inner resistance to what is. All I know is that you cannot choose your twin flame the same way you have no decision about who your mother is. It is a natural divine connection that speaks to the depth of your soul. You know you have always known a twin flame even though you are strangers. When you look into each other's eyes, you see them. You see their Soul. You unconditionally accept each other when you meet during the strangest dire circumstances. You are each other. It feels like having an eternal best friend. When you meet a twin flame, you feel set within. You know the search is over even though you didn't know you were looking. You finally arrive home — you feel blessed to know that feeling of safety and oneness within. It is you two against the world. I hope my perspective helps you. Stay Blessed!

Before I begin this simple book, I would like to ask every Twin Flame runner reading it to take a deep breath. Relax — this book is here to help you figure out how to return to your divine partner. I understand how confusing it is when you are trying to make sense of this Twin Flame journey. I know how stressful it gets when you do not know how to stop the running and chasing cycle. For me, I denied being the runner at first. I thought that I had a choice in the matter. I was scared of labeling myself as the runner because of the negativity that most Twin Flames associate with it. I labeled myself as the chaser. The Twin Flame journey is divinely guided. You learn that it does not matter if you label yourself as the chaser or the runner. You go through a series of changes that transform you from the inside to the outside. Not so much information is shared about the runner Twin Flame; the runner experiences are very challenging and complicated to put into perspective if you are running. With the mere fact that you feel an inner resistance to feeling the love connection, you try to deny the nature of your experiences. Before you accept your Twin Flame experiences as a runner, you try to disguise how you feel in many exotic ways. You believe that you are smarter — you think that you can get away with escaping the love connection by blocking your partner. When I ran from my Twin Flame, I did very many embarrassing things to forget him. I wanted to stop feeling the connection. I masked the pain of missing him by trying to surround myself with as many people as I could. I still felt lonely. I felt a void within me. The more I tried to hide from my Twin Flame behind other people and meaningless relationships, the more I was reminded of him. I could not stop thinking of him. I used to tell myself that at some point the connection would fade. I found comfort in the thought that his absence would make me forget him. There were days when I blocked thoughts of him. I would consciously divert my thoughts away from him. It did not last long — I would switch back to thinking of him without realizing it. Apart from feeling connected to my Twin Flame to infinity, I dream of him in some form. Even though a dream is unrelated to him, I feel his energy with me while I sleep. A part of him is in me as much as a part of me is with him. In this book, I would like to share with you my honest perspective of being the runner in Twin Flame relationships. Even though you are the Chaser, when you have a real perspective of the runner after reading this book, you will grow more empathy for your divine lover. You seek forgiveness — you focus on helping each other heal instead of having judgment and criticism. When love is real, your hearts are always summoning each other for a reunion. You feel the magnetism. You feel the oneness. You know deep within you that you are loved by someone out there. Your heart is always signaling you through vibrations — you are always in each other's minds. Instead of running from unconditional love, I would like to use this simple book to guide you back home — to your Twin Flame. I hope to help you confront your fears; to accept the overwhelming uncomfortable feelings. I also share tips on how I learned to embrace vulnerable feelings. I felt exposed to my Twin Flame and disarmed. Your life will never be the same again. Enjoy this simple book.

This book is a dedication to every Twin Flame who is searching for answers to the following questions. I hope that you find this simple read very insightful. I had so many questions at the beginning of the separation phase. I was naive about the twin flame phenomenon. Sometimes I thought that I was the runner when I was chasing. I would love to share some of my discoveries in this simple book.    What is the perspective of the Twin Flame runner during the physical separation phase? Can a Twin Flame move on and marry someone else? Do you miss your Twin Flame all the time? What is the Twin Flame Energetic Union? What do you do when you feel the urge to reach out to your Twin Flame yet the situation is awkward? How do you live a happy life without your Twin Flame present in your life? How does the Twin Flame Runner feel when they ignore their Twin Flame partner? Does the runner Twin Flame stop loving their divine partner? When your Twin Flame is married to someone else, what do you do if you love them unconditionally? What authentic sign tells you that you have found your Twin Flame? What are some Twin Flame Love lessons? How do you balance the Twin Flame energy to feel the Oneness? What is the Twin Flame Chaser Pain and how do you overcome it? How do you Surrender and let your Twin Flame runner live their life? What are the signs that your Twin Flame runner loves you unconditionally? Does your Twin Flame have the same feelings as you? When the Twin Flame runner awakens to the connection, how will the chaser know that there is a shift? What does the Twin Flame runner feel when the chaser stops chasing and focuses on themselves? During the no-contact phase of the Twin Flame physical phase, what does the runner think of the chaser? How does the Universe make the Twin Flame runner make them wake up and see that they messed up with their Twin Flame partner? Does a runner feel the Soul intimacy too like the chaser? What happens when the Twin Flame runner becomes the chaser instead? What happens when you stop chasing your Twin Flame and focus on yourself? What are the different ways to accept your Twin Flame situation whether you are a Runner or Chaser? How are Twin Flames always thinking of each other? How can you show your Twin Flame runner that you love them without coming on too hard? When does the Twin Flame runner realize that the love between Twin Flames is genuine? Does your Twin Flame runner miss you as much as you miss them? How do you tell that your Twin Flame loves you and misses you as much as you miss them? Why would a Twin Flame ignore you and act like you do not matter? Do both Twin Flames experience the Dark Night of the Soul? Why do Twin Flames run? The Twin Flame runner is always in the head of the chaser. Is the runner also always thinking of the chaser? What are the Signs? How does the runner Twin Flame experience Soul Shock and emotional pain? Does the Twin Flame runner feel your pain? Should you text your Twin Flame runner during separation? The answers you need to the above questions and more are all in this simple book. I wish you the best of luck on your journey every step of the way. Stay Blessed!

It catches you by surprise when you are turning into running mode. You never realize that you are running until you are in action. It is mostly the subtle signs that are difficult to spot. Here are some signs to look out for. You feel fearful when you think of seeing your twin flame again. Sometimes you jump every time you see a message notification from him or her. You feel extremely nervous and out of control emotionally because you feel edgy. These uncomfortable feelings nudge you to block yourself from talking to your twin flame. You feel disarmed and vulnerable by your twin flame. You are also afraid of opening yourself up to the connection that you feel an inner resistance to what is. I hope that my twin flame helps you. Stay Blessed!

Running from a twin flame is a total re-enactment of abandonment trauma. It is also a coping mechanism. When you are the runner's twin flame, you feel uncomfortable with opening up to your twin flame. If you have been hurt and abandoned in the past, you do not trust that a twin flame loves you the way he or she does. You assume that it is a play; Somehow he or she might abandon you soon. So you choose to run to avoid feeling re-victimized.   You feel overwhelming feelings of abandonment. You also fear that a twin flame will see your core wounding. He or she disarms you. They see through you. A twin flame can make you feel vulnerable because you feel exposed. You fear that at any chance they will hurt you like in the past.   A twin flame has to deal with all these issues to heal and feel free to embody unconditional love. You have to let light in — you have to let your heart open with love. It is one of the scary experiences for the twin flame runner because to accept your twin flame love, you have to face your fears. You have to confront parts of yourself that you are hiding from. You have to stare into the darkest parts of your soul.   This book helps you to identify a twin flame's runner traits. You can also spot them within yourself before you cause any detrimental damage to your twin flame relationship. I also provide solutions to some of the issues to finally surrender and find healing. I wish you the best of luck on your journey.   Stay Blessed!

Even though your twin flame is the source of your joys, they are also your triggers to experience your darkest fears. Everything buried within — every darkest secret comes to the surface to be exposed to the Light of your twin flame awakening. Your spiritual awakening process is a discarding journey to shed negative energy. To cleanse and purify your energy. It is one of the most excruciating experiences because the energy-purging process also involves the most trying Spiritual experience: The night of the Soul. It feels painful whenever you are challenged to unlearn your bad habits to learn healthy new ones. A twin flame irritates you because they are the source of the triggers of your pain. Even though you run from a twin flame, you still go through the frustrating growth process to transform into your authentic self. The further you run the more you are reminded of the sacredness of your bond. Nothing beats inner knowing — everything within you accepts your twin flame. They are the most important people in your life. Sometimes your energetic connection is very overwhelming and scares them off. Even when you are treading the highs and lows of your twin flame process, it is your intuition to guide you as a compass to figure out whatever is not working so that you can fix it. I always advise twin flame newbies to trust their inner knowing — you will never go wrong. Most of the frustration happens when you seek answers outside yourself. Sometimes you seek outside validation to confirm if your connection is authentic. No one knows how you feel within even though you tried to explain it a million times to a non-twin flame, you will still be left confused and disoriented. You learn later during your twin flame process that you are the answer. Here are more of a running twin flame's confessions. Stay Blessed!