Erica & Ali are diving into the apps with dating coach & app expert Erika Ettin of @alittlenudge. We talk about whether it really matters what opener you send (hint: YES), how to deal with dating app burnout, and why Erika recommends dating NATO (not attached to outcome).But first, Erica is back from a rejuvenating Bachelorette weekend while Ali had quite the week of first dates (with 2 new nicknames!).Where to find Erika: On Instagram @alittlenudge, on TikTok @alittlenudge, at www.alittlenudge.com.Timestamps: Erika joins us at around minute 22.NYC Live show on Wed May 15th!! Buy tickets at findingmrheight.com/live.Take our Podcast Survey to help us improve the pod: https://tinyurl.com/fmhsurvey24If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to send in a "weird or nah" suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcastHave a scam to report? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 about your potential scam and we will weigh in!Thanks to this week’s partners:Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH.Prose: Take your FREE in-depth hair consultation and get 50% off your first subscription order today! Go to prose.com/fmh.Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.comRecess: Check out Recess and use my code FMH for a great deal: www.takearecess.comOur Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Check out Recess and use my code FMH for a great deal: www.takearecess.com* Check out Recess and use my code FMH for a great deal: www.takearecess.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy