How Phoebe and Mike Redefined "Settling"

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How Phoebe and Mike Redefined "Settling"

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Dec 24, 2021

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Friends’ Phoebe Buffay is quirky, unique, and has lived an interesting life, while by comparison, Mike Hannigan is... kind of bland. So did Phoebe actually settle or did they find the key to happy ever after?

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Dec 24, 2021

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