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Length:
21 minutes
Released:
Aug 13, 2023
Format:
Podcast episode

Description

Welcome back to Human Design for Parents and Kids! In this episode, I am interviewing a dear friend and well of Human Design Wisdom from several years of embodying her experiment with Human Design. She is a 5/2 Splenic Projector. PHS is the “Primary Health System” of Human Design, identified by the variables in the chart. With PHS we can determine the optimal way a child can digest food and information. In Part 2 of this episode, we talk about:* Why Ra taught that Human Design was for the children* The difference between “having morals” and pretending to have morals,* Ra’s role in the storyline of Human Design is as an alarm clock to wake up the Not-Self, and why that may not be attractive to those who are already living their design* First Time Obedience (and my unpopular opinion about it) and how that trains our children to let someone else be the boss, and may set them up for toxic relationships* Three main points to focus on when raising children (The Human Design Parenting Kit, per se)* PHS, feeding them according to their variables* Make sure they are getting the right sleep according to their design* Let them follow their Strategy and Authority, (unless it violates yours)* A great metaphor for what we should focus on in our parenting (based on cultivating various fruit trees in a garden)* Why do adults need to decondition first and learn to follow our Strategy and Authority first (for seven years) before we learn to eat using our PHS, but PHS is a HIGH Priority for children, especially in the first 7 years? (Laetetia’s answer to this question was mind-blowing.)If you would like to learn more about Parenting by Human Design, you are welcome to enroll in my self-paced/secret podcast class, “Parenting by Design 101: How to Read Your Child’s Chart” you can also join our Facebook group where Laetitia and I are available to answer more of your Human Design questions!You can follow Laetitia on Instagram here.You can follow Sashya on Instagram here. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sashyaclark.substack.com
Released:
Aug 13, 2023
Format:
Podcast episode

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Stop trying to sip from the Human Design Fire Hydrant of T.M.I. and start getting clear, specific, and tailored guidance for YOU, your family, and your circumstances. Because You are tired of feeling overwhelmed by all of the Human Design guidance out there on the internet. You are an amazing parent, yet you know there is more. You just can’t put words to what’s missing. You don’t want to spend a lifetime getting to know your child, because you want to connect with them better NOW. The Problem Is ↠ You are too busy being a GREAT PARENT to sort through all of the fluff to find the golden nuggets for yourself ↠ You feel like you are talking in an empty room as your child rolls their eyes and walks away ↠ You feel your child’s growing independence and you want to strengthen your bond in an empowering way ↠ You want to steer away from screeching, preaching, or just losing it, and parent while protecting their self-esteem ↠ You’ve discarded the parenting blueprint you inherited because you intuitively sense there is a better way How Would It Feel If… ? …We understood our children’s inner world, and could speak their language? ? …We could minimize the needlessly stressful “extra”? ?…You had those beautiful cherry-picked bits of insight curated for you? ?… Communication was effective, efficient, and ❤️ to ❤️? ?…You were parenting from your center, proactively? You can uncover the secret code to connecting with your child in an authentic way (without losing the core of who you are). I Get It. I’m Sashya and I’m a mom, too…(((BIG HUGS))) I am also a Creative Family Dynamics Expert. As I held my daughter for the first time, I remember feeling my heart grow three sizes, and suddenly realizing that I would gladly give my life for this tiny little sweet-smelling bundle of brown eyes and coos. I thought I knew what love was before, but, wow, this was amazing. I soon found out it takes a lot more to live for (and live with!) our children than it does to die for them, LOL! My mother, of blessed memory, did the best she could, but I always felt there was something missing. I knew I didn’t want to just do the opposite of what my folks did, but I didn’t know what the “center of the road” really looked like, either. This really hit home for me the year my second son was born – the year my daughter turned 15. My second son metaphorically tossed my parenting books out with the bathwater, and my daughter was inching closer and closer to independence and our relationship was strained. More often than I would have liked, I found myself yelling and breaking down, instead of reaching in, reaching out, and making a strong connection. But, Baruch Hashem, Human Design Changed All That! This podcast is dedicated to helping you uncover those juicy truths and apply them to your family today. For more information or to seek guidance for your specific situation, go to www.sashyaclark.com sashyaclark.substack.com