Defy the Elites, Get Married | Brad Wilcox

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Defy the Elites, Get Married | Brad Wilcox

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Mar 19, 2024

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Whether from pop culture or politicians, corporate executives or mainstream journalists, Americans are bombarded with the message that marriage is outdated, inconvenient, and joyless. But statistics tell a very different story. Shane welcomes sociologist Brad Wilcox, author of the new book Get Married, to share the truth.

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Mar 19, 2024

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Defy the Elites, Get Married | Brad Wilcox

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