All you need to do is meet the right person, fall in love, and then everything magically works out...right? Sadly this isn't a romcom and we're going to unpack it all as we reair one of our favorite episodes with best-selling author Mark Manson about why love is not enough to make relationships work. We discuss the reasons we settle for less than situations, why we stay in certain dynamics like the chaser-runner, and how we can have it all – once we start using our head along with our heart.Follow Mark @markmanson and get his new Audible original 'Love is not Enough'. Learn more at https://markmanson.net/Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:The books The Falling and The Burning by Anna Todd. You may recognize the name Anna Todd from her #1 bestselling After series - but did you know she has also written a new page-turning romance trilogy? The first two books in The Brightest Stars are out now and are perfect summer reads! Visit https://annatodd.com/ and get your copies wherever books are sold.Honey Pot: Get 25% off your first order of personal care products such as washes, wipes, pads, tampons, and probiotics: http://thehoneypot.co/summerHelloFresh: Get 16 free meals plus free shipping by going to hellofresh.com/dateable16 and use the code DATEABLE16Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcastsOur Sponsors:* Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style* Check out Hinge: https://hinge.co/* Check out VIIA and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: https://viiahemp.com/Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy