When we’re desperate or we act as if something external is missing, we create the conditions for our relationships wounds to deepen. What we need is to create a reality where having a conscious partner is natural – and make this a spiritual practice.If we focus on the external world rather than healing ourselves, we’re less likely to attract a conscious partner, and doing so is going to feel like far more effort.Finding a conscious partner takes work, but it doesn’t have to be difficult. Listen to this episode to find out what – and what not – to do in your search.Mentioned in this episode:Healing the Mother Wound 2024: 4th February 2024A brand new edition of the 2½ virtual workshop for women and men, expanding Lorin’s teachings and practices.