Love Is Not Rude. Is My Family?

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Love Is Not Rude. Is My Family?

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Dec 6, 2023

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It seems to be acceptable to accept rudeness from children. Or could it be that we have not understood our call to train our children to be polite. Learn why this is an aspect of love. To read the original post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/love-is-not-rude-is-my-family/

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Dec 6, 2023

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Biblical Reasons to Recover Repentance, pt. 2: Part 2 of my discussion of repentance. Twelve truths to consider about repentance and why it needs to be recovered by today’s millennial who grew up in a Christian home and today’s parent who is raising children. To read the original post, visit... by The Disciple-Making Parent AudioBlog
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