Asking Questions Rather Than Giving Commands

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Asking Questions Rather Than Giving Commands

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Nov 15, 2023

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Parents often feel like their children are testing the limits. Could it be we have not established family rules. Learn how asking questions might reduce the conflict in your family.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/asking-questions-rather-than-giving-commands/

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Nov 15, 2023

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Funerals, Grieving, and Discipleship: Ministering to the grieving and shut-in can be a way to train our children to serve. Listen in for a few thoughts. To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/funerals-grieving-and-discipleship/ by The Disciple-Making Parent AudioBlog
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