Moving From Reactive to Proactive Parenting - S2E10

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Moving From Reactive to Proactive Parenting - S2E10

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May 17, 2016

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Chris Turner is once again joined by Ryan and Kayla North as they discuss how traditional parenting is reactive and why we need to become proactive in our parenting.

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May 17, 2016

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Titles in the series (100)

The Empowered Parent Podcast with Kayla and Ryan North is a trust-based, trauma-informed, connected parenting resource. Hosted by Chris Turner.

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Parenting Confessions - S2E17: Chris Turner is joined by Ryan and Kayla North as well as a very special guest, his wife Kelly. The four of them discuss some of the old parenting ways that they are trying to leave behind and how they repair their mistakes with their kids when they ... by The Empowered Parent Podcast
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The Impact of Hard Places on the Body, Biology, Beliefs, and Behavior - S2E5: Chris Turner and Ryan North continue discussing the impact that being from a hard place has on our kids. This episode includes how the hard places impact our kids' body, biology, beliefs, and behavior. by The Empowered Parent Podcast
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The Importance of Connection - S2E1: Chris Turner talks with Ryan North, Tapestry's Executive Director, on the importance of connection, and how to build it with our kids. Wounded Children, Healing Homes: How Traumatized Children Impact Adoptive and Foster Families by The Empowered Parent Podcast
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The Frequency and Intensity of Behavior Dictates the Frequency and Intensity of Response - S3E2: The team discusses how the frequency and intensity of your child's behavior must determine the frequency and intensity of your response. Our kids need consistent, safe adults who will stay by their side when they need us the most. Tapestry Web | Face... by The Empowered Parent Podcast
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Risk Factors that Make a Hard Place - S2E3: Chris Turner and Ryan North discuss the six risk factors that make a hard place and how they impact our children. by The Empowered Parent Podcast
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Back to School: Teachers are Important - S2E16: Teachers are a big part of our kids' lives. It is important that we interact with them in appropriate ways while treating them well too. Listen as Chris discusses what's appropriate and how to advocate for your child with their teacher as well as the... by The Empowered Parent Podcast
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Childrens' Books That Teach TBRI-based Lessons to Both Kids AND Parents - S2E23: During Tapestry Conference 2016, Cindy Lee and Kayla North joined Chris behind the mics to talk about Cindy's TBRI-based children books. Cindy shares the story of the books' creation, and the trio talk about the different ways the lessons within have... by The Empowered Parent Podcast
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Back to School: Getting Ready for Success - S2E15: It's August and it's time to start thinking about getting back to school. Chris Turner discusses why getting into the school routine (practicing outside of the moment) and proper nutrition and sleep are necessary for a successful start to the school ... by The Empowered Parent Podcast
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The Impact of Hard Places on the Brain - S2E4: Chris Turner and Ryan North recap what makes a hard place and how the impact those hard places have on our kids' brains. by The Empowered Parent Podcast
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Adoption and Foster Care in the Church: Ryan North sits down with Irving Bible Church Executive Pastor Bryan Eck and discusses a little of Tapestry's history and why it is important that the church embrace and support Adoption and Foster Care. by The Empowered Parent Podcast
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Past Failures Can't Keep Us From Future Successes - S3E4: We have all failed as parents and wondered if our mistakes have impacted our kids negatively, but we cannot allow our past failures to keep us from being the parents our kids need us to be. The team discusses how parenting can be a source of shame an... by The Empowered Parent Podcast
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Trauma Is Developmental, and Our Responses to Trauma Need to Be Developmental - S2E20: During Tapestry Conference 2016, Chris was able to chat with Kayla North and Mandy Howard on how trauma is developmental. An Assistant Professor of Psychology at Samford University, Dr. Howard talked about how as a child develops and ages, how they p... by The Empowered Parent Podcast
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Navigating the Holidays - S2E22: Ryan and Kayla North join Chris Turner and they discuss why the holiday season is so difficult for many of our kids. They share personal insights from their experiences, as well as ways that they have learned to help their children, and themselves, n... by The Empowered Parent Podcast
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Why "Rest" is so Important - S2E6: Our guest this week is Kayla North. Kayla and Chris Turner discuss why rest (both spiritual and physical) is so important for us as individuals and families. by The Empowered Parent Podcast
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Parenting with Fear and Regret - S3E3: Chris is joined by Ryan and Kayla North to discuss how so many of us parent from a place of fear. We all have regrets because we now know that we could have done better, but we can't let our regrets prevent us from doing better. We have to learn from... by The Empowered Parent Podcast
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Helping Children's Ministry Become Trauma-Informed - S2E12: Chris and Ryan discuss the need for Children's Ministry to become more trauma-informed and how to approach them. If you would like more information about the training mentioned in the episode, please email us at tapestry@irvingbible.org. This episode... by The Empowered Parent Podcast
18 min listen
Lying - S3E16: Chris, Ryan, and Kayla discuss a question they get from many parents. And that question is, "why do my children lie and what can I do about it"? The answer requires a lot of grace and may not be what most people think it is. Tapestry: Web | Facebook ... by The Empowered Parent Podcast
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Compassion - S2E13: Chris Turner discusses compassion, what it is, and why it's a vital component of our parenting with Ryan and Kayla North. They discuss how sympathy and empathy are both necessary in order to have longevity to our compassion amongst other things. by The Empowered Parent Podcast
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Siblings - S3E21: Sibling relationships can always be tenuous, and even more so when it comes to kids from hard places. Chris, Ryan, and Kayla talk about strategies for dealing with these rivalries and the struggles of sibling interaction. Tapestry: Web | Facebook | T... by The Empowered Parent Podcast
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How the Church Can Work with the State to Help Kids in Care - S2E19: During Tapestry Conference 2016, Chris sat down with Bruce Kendrick, founder of Embrace Texas, to discuss Embrace's role in partnering with local churches to meet the needs of foster children. They discuss our nation's collective mindset about adopt... by The Empowered Parent Podcast
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Will Parenting This Way Prepare my Child for the Real World? - S3E6: Chris, Ryan, and Kayla talk about the fear that connected parenting doesn't prepare our kids for the real world, and why the reasons behind this fear are unfounded. Cast Away on IMDB Tapestry: Web | Facebook | Twitter Empowered to Connect: Web | Face... by The Empowered Parent Podcast
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Teenagers - S3E17: Chris, Ryan, and Kayla spend some time discussing teenagers. The teen years are difficult for most as identity and power struggles are magnified. TBRI for Teens video Tapestry: Web | Facebook | Twitter | Donate Empowered to Connect: Web | Facebook | ... by The Empowered Parent Podcast
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Moving From Reactive to Proactive Parenting - S2E10: Chris Turner is once again joined by Ryan and Kayla North as they discuss how traditional parenting is reactive and why we need to become proactive in our parenting. by The Empowered Parent Podcast
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Hope and Encouragement for Parents - S3E1: 2016 was a difficult year for race relations in the United States. As we celebrate the birthday of Dr. Martin Luther King, we wanted to share an interview we hope leads to better understanding for parents raising children of a different race. Dr. Kin... by The Empowered Parent Podcast
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Why Dads Should Embrace Trust-Based Parenting - S2E7: Chris Turner and Ryan North discuss why dads are often slower to embrace trust-based and why they need to. by The Empowered Parent Podcast
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Give me an Example - S2E14: Chris Turner plays a round of "Give me an Example" with Ryan and Kayla North. Our team has some fun sharing examples of what a "yes" sandwich is amongst other things. by The Empowered Parent Podcast
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Moving From Reactive to Proactive Parenting - S2E10

Moving From Reactive to Proactive Parenting - S2E10

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