James sits down with renowned author and psychotherapist Amy Morin for an enlightening 80-minute conversation that delves deep into the human psyche, relationships, and the essence of mental strength. Amy, celebrated for her bestselling book "13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do," shares her profound insights into the dynamics of personal growth and the intricate workings of couple relationships. This episode is not just an interview; it's a journey through the complexities of the human mind, peppered with personal anecdotes, professional experiences, and the wisdom Amy has gained through years of counseling and writing.The conversation seamlessly navigates from the unexpected twists in Amy's career, including how her book's success was propelled by unforeseen press, to the intricate details of relationship dynamics and therapy. James and Amy explore the deep-seated challenges individuals and couples face, discussing everything from grief and loss to the impact of social media on relationships. They also delve into the importance of continuous personal and mutual growth within partnerships. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to understand the nuances of mental strength, the art of nurturing relationships, and the journey of self-improvement. It's a compelling blend of professional insights, therapeutic wisdom, and relatable storytelling that promises to engage, educate, and inspire listeners.13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do: Fix What's Broken, Develop Healthier Patterns, and Grow Stronger Together.13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't DoAmy Morin, LCSW   (amymorinlcsw.com)----------Episode Summary:1. Initial Discussion on Book Sales and Bestseller Lists:• [00:01:00] to [00:02:10]: Discussion on Amy's book, its sales, and its performance on bestseller lists.2. Unexpected Press and Impact:• [00:02:10] to [00:03:13]: Conversation about the unexpected press from Rush Limbaugh and the impact on book sales.3. Therapy and Personal Challenges:• [00:03:13] to [00:11:58]: Amy and James share their experiences with therapy and personal challenges, including grief and loss.4. Therapist's Perspective:• [00:11:58] to [00:12:10]: Amy discusses her perspective as a therapist and her experiences with different types of patients.5. Mentally Strong Couples:• [00:12:10] to [00:15:34]: In-depth discussion on Amy's book about mentally strong couples and the unique challenges in couple relationships.6. Writing Process and Marketing Books:• [00:15:34] to [00:20:29]: Amy talks about the challenges in writing and marketing books, and the importance of marketing post-publication.7. Relationship Dynamics and Therapy:• [00:20:29] to [00:23:37]: The conversation shifts to dynamics in couples therapy, common issues, and therapy experiences.8. Characteristics of Strong Relationships:• [00:23:37] to [00:24:38]: Amy outlines what makes a relationship strong, including good communication and empathy.9. Social Media and Relationships:• [00:24:38] to [00:25:46]: Discussion on the role of social media in portraying relationship happiness and its actual implications.10. Maintaining Relationships:• [00:25:46] to [00:27:00]: Emphasizing the importance of remembering why partners fell in love and avoiding unrealistic expectations in relationships.11. Personal Growth within Relationships:• [00:27:00] to [00:28:29]: Concluding with the importance of personal growth and not taking partners for granted in relationships.12. Expectations and Challenges in Therapy:• [00:28:29] to [00:32:03]: Discussion about expectations in therapy, challenges faced by therapists, and managing different situations in couples therapy.13. Scripts for Difficult Conversations in Relationships:• [00:32:03] to [00:36:25]: Talk about creating scripts for difficult conversations in relationships, helping couples navigate complex issues more effectively.14. Using Emotions in Relationships:• [00:36:25] to [00:38:38]: Conversation about how partners sometimes use emotions