A wife was running warm and so she turned on a fan to keep her cool while she slept. The next night she noticed a blanket had been removed from her bed by her husband. Now instead of two thick blankets, she had one. And she noticed how she no longer felt too warm. 
Remove the blanket, don't turn on the fan seems like a good metaphor too. Focus on things that really matter, things that move the needle. 
-Intimacy is one vital component in a thriving marriage but sex/biology isn't the ONLY element in marriage. Money, communication, trust, respect, children, and many other elements make up marriage. 
-Faith in God, emotions and facts are powerful antidotes to fear. Anger and fear inspire for a while but love inspires forever. 
-Unified spouses make better decisions than a "l do me" approach. 
-Eating food (natural, from a tree/ground/animal) not manufactured (from a box/factory). Exercising regularly and eating for nutrients not dieting and counting calories. 
-Living within a budget, finding resourceful inexpensive solutions and preparing for emergencies instead of using credit card debt to "afford" a solution/want/need. 
Remove the blanket. Don't turn on the fan. 
Both solutions work, but one works long term and costs less money and time. 
 
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