Sex therapist Cate and son Diggory ask whether lesbian bed death (the idea that lesbians' sex lives become non existent in long-term relationships) is really a myth, throwing up other questions like: Where did the idea of 'lesbian bed death' come from? How do lesbians sex lives compare to their counterparts in other relationship styles? What is responsive and spontaneous desire and which one do I have? Cate and Diggory also answer two listener questions about whether its okay to fantasise about having sex with other people whilst you're in a relationship and getting into creampie with your wife. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into us via:-      Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7-      Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com-      DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpodAnd we'll do our best to answer them on the podcast.Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to the podcast and leave us a review on iTunes, Spotify or wherever you're listening!The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.