In this week's conversation, Somer + Michelle do a deep dive into big spending (if you're listening in real time, just in time for the Black Friday + Cyber Monday crazy!) Listen in if you need reminders on: the difference between genuine generosity and pressure-driven obligation guilt-free missing out  practical tips for protecting your joy  The 2024 3 STEP PLANNER is here! The SWHW Patreon Order The She Works His Way Book (To get the full picture of who we are and who you are in Christ!) Become a Donor   Take what you need... 00:59 Discussion on Big Spending 01:39 Reminiscing About Podcast Beginnings 02:24 Black Friday Experiences 07:26 The Pressure of Holiday Spending 07:36 Generosity vs Obligation in Gift Giving 16:49 The Pressure of Gift Giving for Kids 18:06 Setting Boundaries with Family 19:31 The Joy of Christmas and Family Traditions 20:58 The Role of Parents and Grandparents in Gift Giving 22:19 The Obligation of Gifts and Time 24:19 Creating Healthy Rhythms for the Holiday Season 24:37 The Pressure of Participating in All Events 31:48 The Importance of Advent