Listen, we know "disformity" is not a word. But we're forgiving everything today because Jaj has a big reveal and all is forgiven.  Some of you may call this a toxic trait but it's totally appropriate because this week we; 're discussing all of our toxic traits AKA beige flags. Not the toxic traits that send loved ones running for the hills, but the ones that make life just a bit harder for us and those who love us. Listen in and see if you have any of these beige flags!