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Bonus Archive Ep 029: Ashamed of Your Kids? Reducing Shame, Blame, & Criticism

Bonus Archive Ep 029: Ashamed of Your Kids? Reducing Shame, Blame, & Criticism

FromParenting with Impact


Bonus Archive Ep 029: Ashamed of Your Kids? Reducing Shame, Blame, & Criticism

FromParenting with Impact

ratings:
Length:
23 minutes
Released:
Dec 16, 2022
Format:
Podcast episode

Description

Emotions can influence our behaviors quite directly. When you are proud of your kids, emotions might help you celebrate and share your joy, and encourage your children to continue on a path to success. When you are ashamed of your kids, they might interfere with your ability to be as supportive as your child needs you to be.
Susan Bauerfeld, PhD is a licensed clinical psychologist in private practice in Wilton, CT. Bringing a combination of skills and experience with CBT, attachment theory, neuropsychology, cognitive remediation, coaching and parenting her 3 wonderful, challenging boys, she is an ardent proponent of facilitating change through education, understanding, skill development and practice. She offers workshops, psychotherapy and guidance for parents looking to strengthen their relationships and effectiveness with their children, and ADHD coaching for teens and adults. Dr. Bauerfeld holds an MA and PhD from Fairleigh Dickinson University, a BA from Trinity College and is a member of APA, CTPA, CHADD and Phi Beta Kappa.

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Listen to this bonus episode from the archives of ImpactParents with Dr. Susan Bauerfeld about how emotions influence behavior and how to manage them.

Here is what was covered on this special archival episode:

Shift from shame and blame to a more productive approach

Tackling the real challenge, rather than focusing on the threat

Problem-solving from your frontal lobe, and overcoming the “Amygdala hijack”


Connect with Dr. Bauerfeld:

Website:  https://susanbauerfeld.com/

 
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Released:
Dec 16, 2022
Format:
Podcast episode

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The Parenting with Impact Podcast with Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster, co-creators of ImpactParents.com, inspires parents and professionals guiding complex kids, teens and young adults all over the world to become capable, independent adults. ImpactParents.com is an online community, award-winning blog, and direct service provider for parents and professionals. Elaine and Diane are certified professional coaches with their own lived experience raising children with complex challenges such as ADHD, anxiety, depression, learning disabilities, gender identity issues, and more. Drawing from both personal and professional experience, they teach and inspire parents and professionals to raise and empower complex kids with confidence and calm. Scroll down for links and to download a free parenting guide.   The Parenting with Impact Podcast will: Feature leading experts, bringing you cutting edge information to address your child’s challenges Teach you real-life, practical strategies for creating lasting change Demonstrate how a coach-approach can improve all of your communications, one conversation at a time   For the essentials of ImpactParent's coach-approach to parenting, download a free parenting guide at: ImpactParents.com/Podcast   Find out about Sanity School®, a program for Parents, at: https://impactparents.com/programs-offerings/parent-training-sanity-school/   For information about professional continuing education: https://impactparents.com/for-professionals/    Visit Impact Parents at: https://impactparents.com/