Check out https://smileyface.coffeeReddit Stories | OP, who has been divorced for over a year and is facing financial difficulties, is in a complicated situation with a man named Paul. Paul initially offered to let OP stay with him temporarily after OP lost their job, but later rescinded the offer, citing concerns about their compatibility as roommates. OP feels hurt and angry because they interpret this as Paul prioritizing his solitude over OP's well-being, even though they are in a romantic relationship. They are seeking advice on whether they are being entitled or if Paul is being selfish and commitment-phobic.