Reddit Stories | At 22, OP became a single mother when the baby's father abandoned them. Despite the challenges, OP prioritized her daughter, Mel, and built a new life. Eventually, she found love, got married, and her husband became a father figure for Mel. The relationship between her husband and Mel blossomed, leading Mel to affectionately refer to him as "daddy." However, OP's family continues to criticize her past and choices, belittling her accomplishments and parenting. Their comments, often laced with racial undertones due to her daughter's Mexican heritage, have caused significant distress. In contrast, her husband's more supportive family invited OP and Mel for a bonding visit. This opportunity led to tension with her own family, prompting OP to consider the extent of her involvement with them. She's contemplating maintaining boundaries for her own well-being, despite the challenges of confronting her family. Although her husband fully supports her decisions, OP remains unsure about fully stepping away from her family. She seeks advice on how to handle this delicate situation.