In honor of March Madness and this week's show, we're going to be talking about what a “hot mess” is when it comes to relationships. How do you know when you are a hot mess? And more importantly, when you discover that you are a hot mess, what are you supposed to do about it? We're also going to be doing a recap of our Reset Your Relationship challenge, so you can learn exactly what you need to do to transform your relationship in five days flat. We are going to walk you through the exact simple steps that you can use to reset any hot mess that you might find yourself in. Because let's be honest, escalating fights only take us to the same place. And, it's not a happy place. It's not a good place. We end up saying and doing a lot of things that we wish we could take back. And in fact, it turns that hot mess that we were feeling initially into a bigger hot mess. So we've got to learn how to turn it around, stop visiting that place that makes our hearts ache, and creates a tremendous amount of regret in our relationships. Join Tom and me in the Love Shack to learn how you can reset your relationship now in five simple steps. Have questions about love and relationships? You can call us live during the show (Thursdays 1 p.m. PT) at 425-373-5527 or text your questions here: 601-207-0080.Important Links: Miss our past episodes? Check them all out here: https://stacibartley.com/podcastRelationship Check-up - tired of re-hashing your issues with your partner without making progress? Schedule your check-up today! https://stacibartley.com/checkup/