Shame vs. Guilt: Margaret Light explains the difference between these two often confused emotions. Guilt is about feeling bad for doing something wrong, while shame is about feeling like a bad person. Guilt can motivate change, but shame can lead to negative self-critical thoughts and harm relationships.Show NotesThe difference between shame and guilt (00:01:30) Personal experience with shame (00:03:28)Challenging negative beliefs (00:06:22) Shame and Guilt (00:08:18) Discussion on the difference between shame and guilt, and how shame affects individuals in their day-to-day lives.Childhood Experiences of Shame (00:09:23) Sharing and Naming Shame (00:12:15) Recognizing and Understanding Shame (00:15:34)Dealing with Shame and Self-Compassion (00:18:38) Leaning into Shame and Seeking External Validation (00:21:31) The impact of shame on individuals (00:25:55) Creating a shame-filled environment (00:26:16)The connection between self-talk and how we treat others (00:27:30) Shame and Substance Use (00:31:00) The Shame Spiral (00:32:22) Window of Tolerance and Coping Strategies (00:34:19) Regulating Your System (00:38:45) Regulating Others (00:40:55)Guilt vs. Shame (00:44:27) Recognizing and not internalizing feedback (00:48:14)Healthy guilt vs shame in a professional setting (00:51:07) The importance of relationships with clients (00:53:57) The fascination with understanding human behavior (00:55:00)Thanks to our Partner, NAPA Autotech napaautotech.com Email Matt: mattfanslowpodcast@gmail.comDiagnosing the Aftermarket A - Z YouTube Channel HEREAftermarket Radio Network: https://aftermarketradionetwork.com/