Reddit Stories | OP, a 20-year-old college student, grapples with their mother's excessive coddling of their 16-year-old brother, leaving him lacking independence. Their mother asked them to return home to help, but OP believes he should manage independently. A dispute arose when their mother persisted in requesting their return, leading to a heated argument. OP seeks advice on balancing personal growth and family responsibilities, emphasizing their brother's need for self-sufficiency.