Reddit Stories | OP, a nanny in Italy, is puzzled by her 13-year-old charge, Dario's, unusual behavior. Initially, she attributed his actions, like speaking in a baby voice and clinging to his parents, to cultural differences. However, Dario's conduct has become increasingly concerning. He invades OP's privacy by peeping into her room through adjacent windows. When she requested curtains, they were only installed in the kids' room. To maintain her privacy, she hung a blanket. Additionally, Dario insists on sleeping in the same room when they stay at the grandparents' house, making OP uncomfortable. OP wonders if these behaviors are culturally influenced or genuinely concerning. She seeks advice on whether this is typical for a 13-year-old in Italy and how to address it with the family.