In this episode, the Chris Hilken shares a conversation he had with an FBI agent about crime scenes and the questions they ask. He explores the various ways we define ourselves as individuals and the multitude of personality tests that have become so popular. Chris discusses his experience leading premarital classes and the interesting phenomenon of couples having lists of qualities they desire in a partner.This episode will bring light to any dad hoping to grow as a husband. Join the free community: https://connect.dadtired.com/Shop the Dad Tired Store: https://shop.dadtired.com/We are a non-profit supported by our community. Help us keep going by partnering with us here: https://www.dadtired.com/donateWe are starting to put all our episodes on YouTube. You can watch those here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbOt8vnHUg8LAfxU8eMbgqwI love you, guys. In your corner.- JerradTime Stamps: [00:01:07] Defining ourselves through lists.[00:05:52] Idolatry explained.[00:08:45] Three categories of idolatry.[00:11:46] Three common idols of the human heart.[00:15:02] Coping with control idol.[00:17:30] The power of idols.[00:21:26] Money, power, and sex.[00:23:02] Insecurity and desire for validation.[00:26:19] Idolizing power and control.[00:29:28] Idols in marriage.