In this episode Sal, Adam & Justin speak with sex expert, Dr. Emily on how to add more fun to the bedroom. Why is sexual health so important? (1:47) How stress, trauma, and shame are pleasure thieves. (4:40) Having an unhealthy relationship with masturbation. (8:17) Porn without education is problematic. (9:20) When do kids get sexually imprinted? (18:51) The components of healthy sex. (22:00) Comparing lube to sunscreen. (26:18) The common sexual challenges between men and women. (31:35) Couples that play together stay together. (37:45) The common misconceptions around orgasms. (42:18) The 5 Pillars of Sexual IQ. (47:03) #1 – Embodiment. (48:52) #2 – Health. (53:22) #3 – Self-Knowledge. (54:33) #4 – Self-acceptance. (55:10) #5 – Collaboration. (55:20) Compare and despair does not work with sex. (59:14) Leaning into what is easy for you. (1:01:59) Rebranding anal sex. (1:05:16) Examining where your beliefs around sex come from. (1:09:50) Knowing the difference between fantasies. (1:11:38) Giving your partner a ‘compliment sandwich’. (1:15:30) Her take on dating apps. (1:23:00) Has the “boss-bitch” movement helped or hurt women’s sex lives? (1:30:32) The dangers of “hook-up” culture. (1:45:16) Related Links/Products Mentioned Visit Sleep Breakthrough by biOptimizers for an exclusive offer for Mind Pump listeners! **Promo code MINDPUMP10 at checkout** May Promotion: MAPS Prime or MAPS Prime Pro or the Prime Bundle 50% off! **Code MAY50 at checkout** Sex With Emily - YouTube Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure – Book by Emily Morse Voice of the people: Normalize discussions about human sexuality Sex Education and Parenting: What We Know | Psychology Today Better Sex in 10 Seconds—Guaranteed Conversation starters – Icebreaker Games | TableTopics Yes, No, Maybe List: Find New Ways to Play Women’s techniques for pleasure from anal touch: Results from a U.S. probability sample of women ages 18–93 Why Is The Modern Dating Market A Mess? - Vincent Harinam | Modern Wisdom Podcast 410 Sex With Emily: Manifest Your Partner (It Worked For Me) Mind Pump Podcast – YouTube Mind Pump Free Resources Featured Guest/People Mentioned Emily Morse (@sexwithemily) Instagram Chris Williamson (@chriswillx) Instagram