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73: This is What it Sounds Like When a Man Cries feat. Dom Gabriel
73: This is What it Sounds Like When a Man Cries feat. Dom Gabriel
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Length:
73 minutes
Released:
May 24, 2023
Format:
Podcast episode
Description
We often talk about how men have an easier life, but I think at this point we can also agree that maintaining the identity of “a real man” is extremely hard. Masculinity is what I would call a wet fish identity - because like catching a fish with your bear hands - It’s hard to do, even harder to hold onto and incredibly easy to lose a grip on. And one of the fastest ways to call your capability of holding onto a wet fish into question, is to add more slick to the situation by crying.
It’s one thing for a man to reveal his hurt, pain and insecurities - which you might recall we already discussed in episod 4 of Lovers and Friends, do we really want vulnerable men starring Aba n Preach.
So what comes up for us when we see a man cry? And how do we deconstruct those feelings without tearing down the man or his masculinity in the process? These are all questions I wanted to pontificate with, with the man himself, Dominic Gabriel- a personality and mental health advocate best known from his appearances on Netflix's Perfect Match and The Mole. You may also recognize him from his viral Tik Toks OR from his brand new podcast Dom Meets World.
Conversation starter pack from this episode:
What is masculinity? Is it something you have? Or something you have to earn and maintain?
Is it a turnoff to see a man cry?
Is it a turnon?
Aren’t both of those responses equally as strange? What’s the healthier alternative?
Is crying a useful expression regardless of gender? Should we all attempt to control it because it can be likened to losing your temper?
How do we create an environment where people tasked with proving their masculinity, don’t feel like they have to keep up the audition in front of us?
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It’s one thing for a man to reveal his hurt, pain and insecurities - which you might recall we already discussed in episod 4 of Lovers and Friends, do we really want vulnerable men starring Aba n Preach.
So what comes up for us when we see a man cry? And how do we deconstruct those feelings without tearing down the man or his masculinity in the process? These are all questions I wanted to pontificate with, with the man himself, Dominic Gabriel- a personality and mental health advocate best known from his appearances on Netflix's Perfect Match and The Mole. You may also recognize him from his viral Tik Toks OR from his brand new podcast Dom Meets World.
Conversation starter pack from this episode:
What is masculinity? Is it something you have? Or something you have to earn and maintain?
Is it a turnoff to see a man cry?
Is it a turnon?
Aren’t both of those responses equally as strange? What’s the healthier alternative?
Is crying a useful expression regardless of gender? Should we all attempt to control it because it can be likened to losing your temper?
How do we create an environment where people tasked with proving their masculinity, don’t feel like they have to keep up the audition in front of us?
Thanks to the sponsors of this episode!
Storyworth
https://www.storyworth.com/lovers to save $10 on your first purchase!
Blissy
https://www.blissy.com/lovers
Get better sleep now with Blissy and use LOVERS to get an additional 30% off at blissy.com/LOVERS
Better Help
https://www.betterhelp.com/LOVERS for 10%off your first order
Hello Fresh
https://www.hellofresh.com
Use code Lovers16 for 16 free meals
Follow Shan:
https://instagram.com/shanboody
https://tiktok.com/shanboody
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng
loversfriendspodcast@gmail.com
Follow Dom:
https://www.instagram.com/dontcalldom
Follow the guys of ENJOY:
https://www.instagram.com/enjoyjaredbrady
https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis
https://www.instagram.com/datboykray
https://www.instagra.com/blamelos
Released:
May 24, 2023
Format:
Podcast episode
Titles in the series (100)
Hello, Lovers And Friends: There is so much great and life changing information about sex and love, but let’s say what you’re all thinking...it’s dry as f*ck! Sexologist and intimacy expert Shan Boodram will teach you what you really want to know about intimacy - from porn and orgasms to marriage and divorce - so you can be your own relationship expert. by Lovers and Friends with Shan Boodram