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Today's Episode:
Really taking it to a modern everyday issue here...ghosting. What exactly is ghosting, why does it hurt so much, and when is it ok to do (if ever?). We discuss why the appearance of the romantic trend of simply going silent on a partner and disappearing has emerged. In discussing this, we explore some of the morality around expectations, our obligations to others and how much we should really care about what others think.
For further reading on this episode, see this article: https://ideas.ted.com/why-ghosting-hurts-us-psychology/ It forms the foundation of the psychological analysis we discuss, including:

Why caring about what others think of you is a socially beneficial skill. The key is not to care “too much”.

How uncertainty reduction theory explains the pain of ghosting

Why our craving for human connection exacerbates this pain in a romantic setting


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