Listen to the full episode on our Culture Vulture podcast feed, wherever you get your podcasts!Welcome to our first-ever episode of Own the Feels - brought to you in partnership with Love Better - where we’re doing our damnedest to help us break-up better - which means owning whatever we’re feeling and learning how to deal with it. This week we’re talking all about Revenge - and how we can be better than it. We hear from a few different people who’ve sought revenge in a break-up - from leaving polaroids around their ex's house, to pretending that they’re getting back together and then literally moving countries - but most importantly, we offer up some tangible tips to curb that need to ‘get even’ and how to spot when it crosses the line from ‘harmless’ to ‘harmful.’A huge thank you to Love Better, and everyone who gave us their stories to make these podcasts possible. If you want to know more about how to break-up better, listen to next week's episode, and head to https://www.vice.com/en/topic/love-better. If anything you've heard in this podcast makes you think you should reach out for a little more help, please do!Here are some spots to head to:For peer support: https://1737.org.nz/ To talk about sexual harm: https://safetotalk.nz/or for other advice on how to deal with a breakup you can email lovebetter@youthline.co.nz or text lovebetter to 234 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.