Elizabeth and I talk  preteens.  How to respond charitably when facing defiance and giving them space to vent. How planning something different and fun can help the day improve. Finally, we chat about entertaining a young toddler.3:55 - How do you motivate a preteen who is only motivated by fun? 10:33 - Responding to defiance and having practiced responses 14:02 - Allowing your child to being heard 17:55 - Preteens, boys and sassiness 20:09 - Inexpensive snacks and dealing with picky eaters 24:52 - How to keep the baby happy#makejoynormal #homeschooling #familylife #parenting #motivation  #fun #perspective #connection #preteens Contact On Instagram at @make.joy.normal On Facebook at Homeschoolers: make JOY normal By email at questionsmakejoynormal@gmail.com or by voicemail Thanks for listening to Make Joy Normal Podcast!