Elliot Evans (aka Elliot the Coach) was a typical teenager trying to impress, achieve, understand life and attract validation. When the going got tough he felt the need to throw himself even further into work and radical self development techniques. This was until he suffered a breakdown at the age of 25 following a series of set backs and failed attempts at finding his authentic self. Mental health is and must be at the centre of all leaders thinking as we navigate our way out of a global pandemic into a world of constant change. This is a courageous, authentic and moving episode from someone who came to understand that being kind to yourself and knowing your personal why is an important first step to finding your authentic self.