Lighting myself on fire to keep you warm - Attachment Styles

Chef boyar-dee me down - Icks: After the success of the Sims episode, we decided that we're just going to start doing what you want more often and what you've been asking for is a place to vent your icks. We're back again describing all of the things that make our faces scrunch up in disgust. Did we accidentally just focus on men doing these things and discover that when women do the majority of these, it's more of a yum than an ick? Maybe. by Ladies & Tangents

69 min listen

Dad, not now! I'm doing gay stuff - Sims Play: We just finished up the last leg of tour and had absolutely zero time to record a traditional episode. We've been teasing Sims content for what feels like a year so we finally used our current situation as a reason to pull the trigger and see if we could make an episode out of playing the Sims. For warning, this was recorded on a cell phone in a hotel. If you like this, we will definitely properly record next time! Thank you for being gentle on us this week while we get ourselves back together!! THANK YOU FOR AN INCREDIBLE TOUR!! by Ladies & Tangents

63 min listen

No one self adjusts me like I self adjust me - Mental Health Check In: We've been needing it and you've been asking for it, it's a long overdue mental health check in. Tour is almost over and the roller coaster of highs and lows is about to come to a screeeeeeching halt - see what I did there, PNW? Grab a cozy drink and get your comfy pants on while we answer some of your questions in this slower paced catch up ep. by Ladies & Tangents

66 min listen

Now her soul is in this thrift store bathroom - Dream Meanings: We know you weirdos like to talk about dreams and so do we. The insane movies our subconscious projects on the back of our eyelids is the closest we get to tripping these days. Did we already cover some of these things 3.5 years ago? Maybe, but you know we forgot so we read some popular nightmares like it was the first time. Don't take any of this seriously, our resource was a mattress website. by Ladies & Tangents

66 min listen

Baby’s first ouija board - Sharing your Scandals: Patreon voted for another smergashberg mashup of stories for us to share with you! You want ho-rror stories? We got'em. You want ghost stories? Got that too. Accidentally starting a cult...didn't know you wanted that, did you? But we did... by Ladies & Tangents

66 min listen

You gluck on this, you'll never gluck again - Angel Numbers by Ladies & Tangents

53 min listen

Alive in their garden - The Mirabal Sisters: March is women’s history month and we wouldn’t dare rob you of the opportunity to learn about a group of bad ass sisters who helped take down one of the most cruel dictators in history. Go ahead and skip your morning coffee, we’re running on feminine rage today. RESOURCES - https://www.csustan.edu/sites/default/files/groups/University%20Honors%20Program/Journals/mendoza.pdf https://sites.uab.edu/humanrights/2022/12/09/how-the-murder-of-the-mirabal-sisters-ignited-an-international-movement-to-end-violence-against-women-and-girls/ https://time.com/5793594/mirabal-sisters-100-women-of-the-year/ https://www.history.com/topics/1960s/rafael-trujillo https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mirabal_sisters https://www.history.com/news/mirabal-sisters-trujillo-dictator My Favorite Murder Podcast titled “High-Pitched Goodbye” by Ladies & Tangents

56 min listen

My mom had gotten up to go to the bathroom and she never came back - Scandals: Because we've been enjoying doing a mashup of listener submissions, we are petitioning changing our beloved Scandals episodes to Smorgasbord episodes. IYKYK... Today on the story buffet, we have ho-stories, matrix glitches and some old fashion scandally scandals. As always, we love you and hope you keep sending in your stories to landtstories@gmail.com for a chance to have yours featured on future eps! by Ladies & Tangents

78 min listen

I'm talking about Abe Lincoln being controlled by a rat - Snapple Facts: We've been on the road quite a lot recently and decided it was time to slow things down and lighten the mood with an episode about Snapple Facts. Before getting into the silly, goofy time, Jeri has some updates for the L&T fam. She has seen the questions and comments and is catching everyone while also making some requests for future comments, questions and concerns. As always, we appreciate you giving us the space and opportunity to be humans, as well as being our friend while we do it. Be gentle with yourself and with us this season, everything is trying to come back to life and it takes time and a lot of work. REFERENCE https://bestlifeonline.com/snapple-facts/ by Ladies & Tangents

69 min listen

Stop oogling my boogles - The Male Gaze: This week Ciara decided to delve deep into the history of a term that has been floating around social media for awhile now. And by delve deep, we mean she found a few articles and decided to use that to strike up a conversation about something she knows nothing about. The male gaze was a term coined in the 1970s but we know it’s actually been around for honestly, probably the beginning of time. Join us in getting mad and also inappropriate for the majority of this episode, and please come into it with an open mind and remember that we do not now and have not ever known anything. RESOURCES https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-the-male-gaze-5118422 by Ladies & Tangents

70 min listen

Grieve the person you thought they’d become, and then move on - Hey Ladies: We did a Q&A a few weeks ago and heard how upset you were that we skipped the Hey Ladies questions- well we hope you're happy. We've devoted an entire episode to giving you arguably terrible, but very much solicited advice. Once again, we don't know dick about shit and don't advise anyone ever do what we say- unless it turns out well; then you tell people we told you to do it. by Ladies & Tangents

64 min listen

I didn’t want anything, but I certainly didn’t want a fish - Red & Green Flags: This week we dug deep in the L&T files for a highly requested episode and asked you all for your “red flags” and “green flags”. Whether it’s a romantic, familial or work relationship - we’ve all experienced that spidey sense that tells our gut whether we vibe with certain people or not. As always please take these as the opinions they are and nothing more - we have never wanted you to listen to us and we hope you never will. by Ladies & Tangents

68 min listen

What did he do to me last night to make my kitty cough so much? - Valentine's Day Special: Once we broke the tradition of our annual Valentine's Day episode with the guys, we apparently forgot completely that the day existed at all. Ciara prepared a Smörgåsbord of stories for us and Jeri tried to make them hot in honor of the day of love. It was nearly impossible to do considering two of the stories included mehrder.... by Ladies & Tangents

79 min listen

Vulnerable enough to project onto you - The Three A's: Get out your pencils and papers this week because class is officially in session. We're testing Ciara's attention span, Jeri's reading and your patience with us as we take the scenic route to the point. Jeri broke out her teacher hat again to teach us about “the three A’s" and how they might apply to more of us than we think. Grab your tools and your hard hats, because we're building a bridge of understanding that will connect us all while maybe, hopefully, also getting Jeri an honorary PhD from the University of Phoenix Online. RESOURCES PHILO- NOTES https://youtu.be/2iHJbfyUqZg?si=ugHuhiAjHnaGiHp_ Griselda Iniguez https://youtu.be/LuYbi0rF5og?si=z0zvwJVFpzwP5Iux Professor Givon’s Lectures https://youtu.be/YYZEJnrOTrY?si=6cMTdGFyZnBR80hH PHILO- NOTES https://youtu.be/2kw80Uzt2GU?si=0_4gES7Vg-EEy3y8 by Ladies & Tangents

62 min listen

To be fair, the bar is on the floor - Couples Game: If you’ve ever spent a sleepless night wondering what part of a burrito would best represent each of us, or which one of us has a higher pain tolerance, wonder no more! Ciara surprised Jeri this week with The Couples Game- which is totally not weird in any way for two cousin besties to play together. Cousins can play couples games....couple means two, you're the one who is making it weird. Grab some snacks and your beverage of choice and join us for a good old fashioned game night full of healthy competition and borderline delirious fits of laughter. by Ladies & Tangents

62 min listen

I'm not a psychologist, I'm not a psychiatrist, I'm barely a person - Family Systems: This week we took another break from having a silly goofy time to tell you about a psychology theory we stumbled upon thanks to a guy named Murray. Triangulation, multigenerational transmission process, a whole bunch of other words we barely understand, but we have a good feeling you'll relate to these family systems as well as we can. I mean, as well as the people on that one tv show we all collectively watched, not us. It’s definitely not us. Big disclaimer once again that we don’t know dick about shit, we aren’t professionals in any aspect and this is just two friends talking about something interesting they found on the internet! RESOURCES- https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/your-emotional-meter/202311/understanding-bowen-family-systems-theory?amp (https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/your-emotional-meter/202311/understanding-bowen-family-systems-theory?amp) https://www.thebowencenter.o by Ladies & Tangents

78 min listen

Boobie! Boobie on the TV! - Turning 20 in 2024: We can't believe 2004 was 20 years ago- especially since we ourselves just had our 12th 20th birthday last year. If you're ready to embark on the nostalgia train, then punch your ticket and step right this way. We'll take you back to a time when music videos ruled the world and a certain painter's code sent the religious world into a tizzy. Speaking of Tizzy...I can't remember but I think there was something to do with a ball and a mid game musical number involving Shmanet Shmackson and a one Mr. TizzyTimberlake? Man, 2004- what a year it was and what a wild ride recalling it has been. https://www.buzzfeed.com/briangalindo/things-that-happened-in-2004 https://www.rochesterfirst.com/news/national-news/songs-that-turn-20-years-old-in-2024/amp/ https://www.infoplease.com/year/2004 by Ladies & Tangents

77 min listen

You’re a menace and I mean that as the highest compliment - Dats Disgusting: You mother fathers are absolutely FOUL and we love you for it! We weren't sure what to expect when Jeri initially asked for disgusting stories, but we knew that if anyone could understand her wishes, it would be the community we've built on the foundation of not being able to hold our own bowels. If you don't like poop, puke, goat diseases, or bloody nipples, this probably isn't the episode for you... we'll c u next tuesday! GAZA/WEST BANK RESOURCES- https://medium.com/@scholarscoalition/for-immediate-release-u-s-4c2aecd11535 https://irusa.org/middle-east/palestine/ https://buildpalestine.com/2021/05/15/trusted-organizations-to-donate-to-palestine/ https://www.vox.com/2015/5/14/18093732/israel-palestine-misconceptions https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/52045757 WE’RE GOING ON TOUR - ladiesandtangents.com WE'RE ON PATREON - patreon.com/ladiesandtangents MERCH - ladiesandtangents.com/lt-merch *NEW* SUBMI by Ladies & Tangents

86 min listen

Twosies?! What a special treat! - Burnout vs Depression: *TRIGGER WARNING* This ep contains discussions of su*cidal ideations, hospital admittance and a lot of the word that’s referenced typically using the phrase see you next Tuesday. New year, new us! That’s right, instead of waiting until 2024’s reflection episode to call ourselves out on not doing an episode on burnout vs depression, we’re starting off the year discussing what we’ve put off for two. Did we have to first experience some pretty intense physical manifestations of our minds misgivings? Sure, but if there’s one thing being neurodivergent in a neurotypical world has taught us, it’s that it doesn’t matter how we got here as long as we get here. Speaking of how we got here….we’re aware of the adorable character trait that we possess which consists of going absolutely off the rails silly before diving into something that makes us uncomfortable. We want to warn and apologize to you in advance that the running call back/c by Ladies & Tangents

93 min listen

I could punch last year me in the teeth - 2023 REFLECTION: It's time for our longest running podcast tradition...a little commotional drumroll for our annual reflection! It has always been so fun to look back at where we were the year prior and be able to see just how far we've come....until this year, when we looked back and saw just how much one of us has backslid into the pits of depression and self doubt. And because the podcast can only handle one of us being down at a time, Ciara's reflection is here to be our significantly more uplifting and positive life raft! We can't even begin to thank you all for being with us for another whole year. We still feel like we're just getting started and feel so lucky to have so many wonderful people to share it with along the way! We hope you all are able to be kind to yourself as we begin a new year and enter into the next season safely and with an abundance of whatever it is you need. We'll be utilizing an abundantly thick nap asap before t by Ladies & Tangents

89 min listen

I got the mall Santa’s package and it delivered - Ho-liday Special: Are you a satisfied mom on Christmas morning sipping coffee, smugly across the room in your moo moo? Because you gave us exactly what we wanted this year- the most incredible collection of Ho-liday stories two adult women could ask for. If you’re eager to get into the ho-liday spirit you will first have to sit through roughly 30 minutes of our annual self deprecation and incredible re-telling of Ciara’s first experience of a band mom at a Christmas concert. Suprise…there were animals. GAZA/WEST BANK RESOURCES- https://medium.com/@scholarscoalition/for-immediate-release-u-s-4c2aecd11535 https://irusa.org/middle-east/palestine/ https://buildpalestine.com/2021/05/15/trusted-organizations-to-donate-to-palestine/ https://www.vox.com/2015/5/14/18093732/israel-palestine-misconceptions https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/52045757 WE'RE ON PATREON - patreon.com/ladiesandtangents MERCH - ladiesandtangents.com/lt-merch *N by Ladies & Tangents

80 min listen

You-vering, not me-vering - Hoovering: Next on the list of things you thought were unique to you, but they're not and the internet has made up a word to describe it - Hoovering! Never heard of it? Well, it's not peer reviewed or accepted as an official term in psychology, but we're not psychologists or accepted in certain circles either so we consider ourselves the perfect people to discuss it. If you think we're about to talk to you about the loud tool that sometimes helps you get stuff off the floor, you're kind of right. Hoovering is the process by which people in your life can suck you back into unhealthy patterns, regardless of how hard you try to establish and hold boundaries. It's like the old saying goes, you either die a hoover or live long enough to find yourself sucked back in. Apologies in advance for all of the dumping we do in this ep. We're just way too familiar with vacuums. GAZA/WEST BANK RESOURCES- https://medium.com/@scholarscoalition/for-immediate-release-u-s-4c2a by Ladies & Tangents

76 min listen

The bad boys of Christmas past - Krampus: We thought that discussing the half goat half demon holiday horror would stuff the spook in your stocking but instead, Krampus crammed us full of laughter. Our elders have an awful lot to say about the younger generations, but after learning about the stories and fear tactics they created to pass the time and coerce children into being good- we're doubling down on our tiktok dances and memes. I'm not saying we'll never run through the streets in furry costumes, threatening children with bundles of sticks, but we certainly won't be jumping there as quickly as generations past. RESOURCES- https://www.history.com/news/krampus-christmas-legend-origin https://www.britannica.com/topic/Krampus https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Krampus https://www.altpress.com/krampus-facts-myths-krampusnacht-trivia/ GAZA/WEST BANK RESOURCES- https://medium.com/@scholarscoalition/for-immediate-release-u-s-4c2aecd11535 https://irusa.org/middle-east/palestine/ https://bui by Ladies & Tangents

63 min listen

No chemo or anything, just bar breastmilk - Heartwarming Stories: Sometimes life imitates art and in this episode our audience proves just how fairytale like life can be. From meet cutes to lift saving rat poison, these stories paint the world in beautiful technicolor. There's also a longwinded bit rif about fantasy words that had us being so silly. We hope you'll enjoy. GAZA/WEST BANK RESOURCES- https://medium.com/@scholarscoalition/for-immediate-release-u-s-4c2aecd11535 https://irusa.org/middle-east/palestine/ https://buildpalestine.com/2021/05/15/trusted-organizations-to-donate-to-palestine/ https://www.vox.com/2015/5/14/18093732/israel-palestine-misconceptions https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/52045757 WE'RE ON PATREON - patreon.com/ladiesandtangents MERCH - ladiesandtangents.com/lt-merch *NEW* SUBMIT YOUR STORIES - landtstories@gmail.com FOLLOW ALONG WITH US ON SOCIAL MEDIA - @ladiesandtangents by Ladies & Tangents

62 min listen

I've shaved so many backs - Would You Rather: TW: car accidents, loss The world has felt really heavy lately and that weight was felt locally this past week. A total of 6 people were lost and 18 were injured in an accident that rocked our community. We try our best to find a balance between leaving space for grief, while also offering a distraction and this episode is no different. After addressing our local news, we utilize our favorite coping mechanism, humor to help bring light into a very dark time. Shoutout to everyone who sent us Would You Rather questions to respond to, you all truly never disappoint! For the families & schools affected by the accident https://www.trojanfoundation.org/donate GAZA/WEST BANK RESOURCES- https://medium.com/@scholarscoalition/for-immediate-release-u-s-4c2aecd11535 https://irusa.org/middle-east/palestine/ https://buildpalestine.com/2021/05/15/trusted-organizations-to-donate-to-palestine/ https://www.vox.com/2015/5/14/18093732/israel-palestine-miscon by Ladies & Tangents

81 min listen

Not so hard anymore, are we?? - 4th Anniversary Episode: I swear we blinked and our little baby pod became a full fledged kid. It is hard to believer that we've been sharing every side quest of a thought with you all for 4 straight years- time wise, the real ones know that none of them were fully straight. To celebrate this party, we're dropping an hour and a half anniversary special recapping our recent trip to Los Angeles and crying over your words. Give yourself a great big hug from us today and everyday. Know that you matter and that just by existing, you've been a part of changing our lives. We are more grateful for you than we can ever explain. Here's to so many more podiversaries! Now stop crying, this is a party. We can all return to sad bitch island tomorrow! GAZA/WEST BANK RESOURCES- https://medium.com/@scholarscoalition/for-immediate-release-u-s-4c2aecd11535 https://irusa.org/middle-east/palestine/ https://buildpalestine.com/2021/05/15/trusted-organizations-to-donate-t by Ladies & Tangents

95 min listen

In b*tchness and in wealth, or whatever they said - Checking In: We've been in the damn trenches over here. Between the light leaving the sky at 4 pm, sicko kids and no sleep, life has us over here sharing a floating door like Titanic intended. The day before we took off to fly across the country with our husbands, we decided to just sit down and have a quick catch up with all of our besties...and then we had an impromptu gnat killing spree....and then the episode abruptly ends because a random chunk of audio went missing. Forgive us for being absolute trash bags this week. We love you so much. by Ladies & Tangents

72 min listen

You're wearing my skin today - Spooky Stories: This is the episode where everyone finds out which one of us was actually real. For halloween, Jeri took a hike and there's two Ciaras...unless there never was a Jeri...? ANYWAY, to lean into the spookiness of the season, the twosies of us are telling your UFO, H0rny Spirits, Creepy Dolls & Closeted Shadow People stories. Thanks for keeping us scared, friends! GAZA/WEST BANK RESOURCES- https://medium.com/@scholarscoalition/for-immediate-release-u-s-4c2aecd11535 https://irusa.org/middle-east/palestine/ https://buildpalestine.com/2021/05/15/trusted-organizations-to-donate-to-palestine/ https://www.vox.com/2015/5/14/18093732/israel-palestine-misconceptions https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/52045757 WE'RE ON PATREON - patreon.com/ladiesandtangents MERCH - ladiesandtangents.com/lt-merch *NEW* SUBMIT YOUR STORIES - landtstories@gmail.com FOLLOW ALONG WITH US ON SOCIAL MEDIA - @ladiesandtangents by Ladies & Tangents

71 min listen

Flip floppin all over the ocean - The Bermuda Triangle: 0:00 - 9:20 intro 9:21 - 30:00 addressing Gaza/Israel 30:00 Bermuda Triangle There are things that as children, we all thought would be incredible threats to our safety- quicksand, amnesia, secret British twins and of course, the Bermuda Triangle. Today we're going to tell you about one that has proven to be a problem for roughly 1,000 people, including naval ships and airplanes. Whether you believe in it or not, there are numerous mysterious accounts of people, planes and ships going missing all in the triangular ocean between Bermuda, Miami and Puerto Rico. Didn't realize it was that close to Florida? Us either. Suddenly that state makes more sense. Before getting into todays topic, we hope you'll take a second to listen to some words about what is happening in Gaza. We will have resources linked below. GAZA RESOURCES- https://medium.com/@scholarscoalition/for-immediate-release-u-s-4c2aecd11535 https://irusa.org/middle-east by Ladies & Tangents

74 min listen

Emmy Award Winning So-and-So - Hanging w/ Heather Brooker: As a woman, we're often told who to be and how to show up in the world. We sat down with actress, comedian, host and *ahem* Emmy Award Winning Journalist, Heather Brooker, to discuss the complexities of balancing a presence in the entertainment industry with being a mother. This year, Heather and her husband, have merged the two worlds together with their daughter in a family centric podcast titled, The Brooker Family Popcast. We hope you enjoy our conversation of motherhood, media and meeting our children where they're at. Also there's a special Snoop Dogg segment and we encourage everyone to please leave your fav song in the comments below! Listen to The Brooker Family Popcast on all streaming platforms! FOLLOW ALONG WITH HEATHER! www.theheatherbrooker.com @theheatherbrooker by Ladies & Tangents

66 min listen

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