In this episode, John talks about what the "pursuers" and "distancers" are in relationships, and encourages you to look at your behavioral patterns to determine which one you are in your relationships.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  This episode is sponsored by/brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/code and get on your way to being your best self. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.