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Episode 24: Behaviour and Feelings

Episode 24: Behaviour and Feelings

FromThe Aware Parenting Podcast


Episode 24: Behaviour and Feelings

FromThe Aware Parenting Podcast

ratings:
Length:
56 minutes
Released:
Oct 7, 2019
Format:
Podcast episode

Description

In this week's episode, we talk about Behaviour and Feelings and the three different reasons that draw people to Aware Parenting. One of those three reasons is due to behaviour. Aware Parenting looks at what a child's behaviour is telling us. When we respond with compassion, listening and understanding, we can observe very clear differences in their behaviour.

[1.45] What drew us to Aware Parenting
[8:45] The third reason families are drawn to Aware Parenting
[11.30] How helping our children allows healing with ourselves
[16.50] How doing our own work can shift a child’s behaviour
[19.30] Shifting your lineage and imprints on parenting
[23.00] Fundamental shifts in culture and upbringings
[25.00] Challenging our core beliefs through behaviour
[26.20] The inner work and the outer work
[28.50] There is no perfect parent or child
[30.10] Conscious children processing adversity
[34.45] Repairing relationships as adults and with our children
[37.00] External behaviour is a reflection of the Internal state
[40.30] How listening to feelings helps on all levels
[43.20] Cooperation comes from connection
[47.30] Moving from challenges to ease
[51.10.] Meeting our own needs



This week’s invitation:

1. Connect in with the 3 things we offered (long term emotional wellbeing, trauma or behaviour) - which has drawn you to Aware Parenting?
2. Be curious around behaviour and feelings. What do you think is going on?

Resources:

Aletha Solter's Books - Cooperative and Connected and Tears and Tantrums

 
As always, you can head over to the Aware Parenting Podcast Facebook group and join in the discussion, or you’ll find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast 
You can find Marion at marionrose.net and Lael at laelstone.com.au
And if you haven’t already, make sure you subscribe to the podcast so we can pop into your podcast feed.

Sending you much love, compassion and grace in your parenting journey.
x
Lael and Marion
Released:
Oct 7, 2019
Format:
Podcast episode

Titles in the series (100)

The Aware Parenting Podcast explores all elements of parenting through a developmental perspective. We explore why and how connection, attachment, compassionately understanding our own childhoods as parents, and listening to our children are the foundation to parenting with this particular kind of awareness. We are both Aware Parenting Instructors, certified by The Aware Parenting Institute, founded by Aletha Solter, Ph.D.