Like Tinder, But Safer: Troubleshooting Arranged Muslim Marriage | Newaz Ahmed

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This article was written by Newaz Ahmed, and was originally published on MuslimMatters.org. Read by Zeba Khan.

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Like Tinder, But Safer: Troubleshooting Arranged Muslim Marriage | Newaz Ahmed: The biodatas that we send and receive are inherently superficial. We’re not given much time to make a decision on that limited information, and so the result is the same sort of superficiality, an un-Islamic swipe based on attractiveness alone. by MuslimMatters
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$Day of The Dogs - Part 1 | Wael Abdegawad: THE DOGS WOULD NOT STOP BITING HIM. Omar felt wet all over, and knew it was his own blood. He was almost blind from the sting of it in his eyes, and tasted it in his mouth, coppery and hot, along with the rank dog fur he’d bitten off. Pain burst and roiled everywhere in his body. He’d been in pain before, he’d been beaten and bruised and had even fractured bones. But nothing like this. He was baking like a piece of beef in an oven, transforming into something unrecognizable. They were killing him.$
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