Episode 58: Rewriting Your Future

FromLesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life

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Episode 58: Rewriting Your Future

FromLesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life

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37 minutes

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Jul 19, 2020

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Melisa and Alli talk about how to start over and move forward with your new life after leaving your marriage.

Released:

Jul 19, 2020

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Lesbian Chronicles is a podcast for people who’ve realized their true sexual identity later in life. Alli and Melisa share their own experiences of leaving their heterosexual marriages to be their true selves in an effort to help others find their own way and feel a little less alone in the process.

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Episode 1: From the Closet but not in the Closet: Alli and Melisa’s first Lesbian Chronicles episode.... recorded from Alli’s closet! Literally! We cover our stories about coming out later in life and how we are now safely on the other side. This is for anyone coming out be it as gay, lesbian, or... by Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life
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Episode 11: Listener Questions: This week we cover a few questions we’ve gotten from our lovely listeners. Then we go off the rails a little and end up talking Roombas, recycling and the pH levels of water. by Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life
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Episode 2: How did you know?: Alli and Melisa go into more details on when/how they knew they are gay. We also answer a listener question on keeping the peace between your ex and new girlfriend. And we bring Nicole Kidman back from the dead! by Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life
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Episode 6: The Dating Game: Alli and Melisa talk about the levels of difficulty to coming out at different stages in life. And the dating game! Where are the single ladies? Do you buy flowers for women? by Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life
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Episode 17: Dr. Jaime Blandino on Guilt: Alli and Melisa talk with Dr. Jaime Blandino about the guilt of leaving your heterosexual marriage. The price of admission is high. But the price of exclusion from your most authentic life is higher. by Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life
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Episode 14: Manifesting the Life You Want: Today we talk about envisioning how you want your life to look in an effort to make it a reality. We also hit on hushing the noise and paying close attention to what you want versus what others think is right for you. FMK- “Girls” (Sorry, Hannah Horvath) by Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life
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Special Segment: Alli talks to her teen daughter: Short interview with Alli’s teenage daughter regarding divorce and having a gay mother. by Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life
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Episode 4: The Hard Conversation: Alli and Melisa talk about the difficulties of telling your significant other you are gay. by Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life
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Episode 7: It’s Not About Sex: Alli and Melisa discuss the aspects to relationships with women ... and no, it’s about sex. by Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life
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Episode 9: Living in Your Marriage: Alli and Melisa talk about staying married even when you know you’re gay or “not straight.” We also talk about Julianna Hough coming out as “not straight.” And today’s FM and *not* kill... the US Women’s Soccer Team. by Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life
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Episode 16: Friendship Boundaries, Shower Sex and Centaurs: We talk about setting boundaries in friendships and how to avoid crossing the line. And we finally watched “Below Her Mouth” and we have a lot of questions... specifically about shower sex and centaurs ? by Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life
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Episode 8: The Master Doc: Melisa and Alli talk about a popular document viewed by women questioning their sexuality. And for FMK... we swoon over the lovely Jennifer Anniston! by Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life
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Episode 10: A Chat with Dr. Jaime Blandino: Melisa and Alli sit down with Dr. Jaime Blandino to discuss the shame that surrounds coming out. by Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life
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Episode 12: Bag of Dicks: Alli and Melisa talk the dirty details of lesbian sex. by Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life
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Episode 13: All the Guilt: Alli and Melisa talk about how guilt weighs you down when coming out and divorcing... and how you’re not responsible for other people’s happiness. Our FMK today— Transparent! (Such a good show!) by Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life
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Episode 15: The Aftermath by Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life
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Episode 5: Grieving your Marriage: Alli and Melisa discuss the process of grieving your marriage and allowing yourself and your husband the time to do so. We also finally started to watch The Handmaids Tale! by Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life
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Episode 40: You Have One Job!: Alli and Melisa talk about what we’ve learned about ourselves since coming out. We also touch on how similar the dynamic between Alli and her partner is to Glennon Doyle and Abby Wambach. And we talk about a Texas teacher placed on administrative... by Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life
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Episode 19: Making It Work With Your Ex: Strategies that Melisa and Allison have incorporated for making things awesome their exes. Traveling as a Modern Family and finding friendship with your Ex husband. Also, being positive about your exes new relationship. by Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life
33 min listen
Episode 25: Rev. Susannah Davis on Gayness and God: Rev. Susannah Davis of Kirkwood United Church of Christ joins Alli and Melisa to talk about reconciling faith with sexuality. by Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life
33 min listen
Episode 36: Evolution of Relationships: Alli and Melisa talk about how relationships develop... the bullet train or the slow burn. by Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life
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Episode 18: Life After Separation: This week we talk about what our lives were like after separating from our husbands and dealing with the looming divorce. No FMK — instead we talk about the movie “Imagine Me and You” and some movies that stirred early “feelings” in our childhood. Fun... by Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life
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Episode 23: Dykes on Bikes Atlanta/Polyamory: Alli and Melisa talk with the President of Dykes on Bikes Atlanta about their organization and her experience as a polyamorous lesbian. by Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life
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Episode 49: Alli’s Girlfriend in the Hotseat: Alli’s girlfriend shares what it’s like to be in a relationship with a late in life lesbian. by Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life
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Episode 32: Make Me Another Damn Sandwich!: Remember Marie from Episode 3? Well, she’s back! This time with her real name and sharing her coming out story! by Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life
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Episode 20: Atlanta Pride 2019: Alli and Melisa chat about attending Pride in Atlanta and share ideas on building a community. by Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life
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Episode 55: Dating Over 50: Dating over 50 by Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life
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Episode 30: Christmas Shit Show: Alli shares what it was like to have her parents, ex-husband, in-laws AND her girlfriend all over for Christmas. And Melisa discusses actively not dating. by Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life
33 min listen

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Episode 58: Rewriting Your Future

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