If you’re like most folks you want it all. But it can be challenging to balance your personal ambition with your family all while maintaining a juicy sex life. Today’s guest, Dr. Joli Hamilton has the answers. Drawing from her entrepreneurial spirit and experience raising seven kids while maintaining a passionate relationship, Joli talks about how to design your relationship. We chat about what it means to truly anchor – to your partner, to your family, and to your intimate time together. “When you see the connection you foster with your partner as an investment you’re making for your children, it’s easy,” Joli says.Thank you to BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions, for sponsoring the show. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily or by using code DREMILY at check out.If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. I am also currently accepting upcoming submissions for an upcoming episode about sex on the spectrum. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. Visit loveandlibido.com to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.  And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.