Hello Besties! On todays episode we brought in Cesar from I.E In Friends and he opened up to us about he he dealt with being in a toxic relationship, Steph talking about dealing with grief, not like your dad's GF and more. Get 10% OFF Your first month of Therapy at Betterhelp.com/ieinbesties Follow Cesar!https://www.instagram.com/iknowcesar/ Spill the Tea here!https://forms.gle/BvzSmC1dsqGCjTYX8 Follow us!https://linktr.ee/ieinbesties Vanessa CazarezInstagram -  https://www.instagram.com/bloomingvc.vic/Twitter - https://twitter.com/Bloomingvc Stephanie RamierezInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/stephsgotmilk/twitter - https://twitter.com/stephsgotmilk Time Stamps!00:00:00 - Intro00:02:03 - Steph was disappointed at the Bad Bunny concert00:09:00 - I.E in friends live show00:09:50 - Cesar’s comedy stand up experience00:12:00 - Outgrowing partying  00:14:00 - What lotería card are you00:17:09 - Awkward Pap Smear00:25:15 - Things guys do girls don’t know about00:26:34 - People you don’t like for no reason00:29:43 - Do guy friends one up each other00:31:12 - Leaving a physically abusive relationship00:44:25 - Standing up for a friend during a toxic relationship00:47:24 - Not wanting to learn a lesson from a mistake00:53:00 - Open but not vulnerable00:56:14 - Does everyone need therapy00:58:36 - Being in touch with your femininity01:05:50 - Are jokes a defense mechanisms01:12:10 - Steph opening up on the passing of her dad01:14:18 - Things not to say at a funeral01:17:50 - Grief is lonely01:20:38 - Not liking your dad’s girlfriend01:29:50 - What if your husband/wife comes out the closer01:35:40 - People getting uncomfortable with vulnerability01:38:53 - I’ll pray for you