Hello Besties! Today we brought in Vanessa's Baby Father, Hugo, and we went over how they managed to stay great friends while Co-Parenting! We also dived deep into events that trigger us and why they trigger us in hopes to conquer our minds! Hope you enjoy! Follow Hugo!https://www.instagram.com/statchogit/Hugo's Podcasthttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_y1uP21rHRYfUlu14ejOzQ Get 10% OFF Your first month of Therapy at Betterhelp.com/ieinbesties Get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code BESTIES at MANSCAPED.com! Spill the Tea here!https://forms.gle/BvzSmC1dsqGCjTYX8 Follow us!https://linktr.ee/ieinbesties Vanessa CazarezInstagram -  https://www.instagram.com/bloomingvc.vic/Twitter - https://twitter.com/Bloomingvc Stephanie RamierezInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/stephsgotmilk/twitter - https://twitter.com/stephsgotmilk Time Stamps:00:00:00 - Intro00:00:58 - The F word shouldn’t be a bad word00:02:00 - Weed Brain00:07:21 - Joking about mental health00:09:24 - Manscaped00:14:00 - Why We React a Certain Way00:18:36 - Releasing emotions with yoga00:20:25 - Being tested on the same abilities00:23:05 - Downtown Fontana Potential00:25:44 - Beggars can’t be choosers00:28:00 - Code Switching00:31:04 - Mental Creative blocks00:32:30 - Creators are mind blowing00:37:3 - Compliments go a long way00:41:30 - People Pleasing00:43:51 - Making friends from HS after High School00:47:13 - Give yourself the attention00:49:45 - Listening to someone’s anger00:52:52 - Vanessa on talking over people01:00:45 - Listening brings peace01:06:02 - Certain souls are meant to meet01:09:03 - Learning from life’s challenges01:13:30 - Having Multiple Soul Mates01:18:22 - Can’t multitask01:19:57 - Co parenting01:21:02 - Choosing the right name for your baby01:23:33 - Your Mexican nickname *01:31:47 - What our stripper name would be01:33:31 - Men having pregnancy symptoms01:37:07 - The Connection In Breast Feeding01:42:50 - Postpartum Depression01:48:14 - Having a baby inside you is wild01:50:56 - Tea Party