This week in the Dear Clementine inbox:

I’m think of myself as a feminist but often my mind is really not feminist at all...I often fantasise about being submissive and man pleasing, sometimes they being verbally abusive or using coercive control and me giving up my power. Where is the line between kink and repressed inner misogyny?  
I have an 11 year old daughter and I’m currently deciding whether to put her in an all-girls high school or co-education. I’m interested in your thoughts around the pros and cons of single sex vs co-education for girls.
I'm in my early 30s and really want to have a baby but worry about what it will mean for my life, career, relationships & financial security. Can you ever be fully ready and if so, how do you know? 



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