The question that comes up is: what if a mom desires gentle discipline for her family, and dad doesn't believe it can work?This question has crossed my path several times since starting the podcast, it's a tough one to be sure.  Christina and I discuss what attachment is, and what discipline means.  Where can we seek support with this conflict, and how we might discuss discipline.  We also delve into the difference between gentle and permissive, and ponder the question:  Can you be both strict and non-punitive?4:31 - What if spouses disagree on discipline? 9:32 - Attachment vs punitive parenting16:25 - Moving closer to our ideals and how to reach our husbands 25:40 - Is how I am interacting with this child going to bring them closer to God?   30:39 - The blessing of a father34:32 - Being a place of love and trust and mercyBlog about Toniebox  www.tonies.com   use code toniepodcast  for15% discountNeufeld Institute:https://neufeldinstitute.org/Hold Onto Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld attachment in family life, part one - what attachment isn't Try Riversidefm, Our recording platform.  I use it because it’s easy. I use it because good tech support matters.https://riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_1&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=bonnieBuzzsprout makes podcasting simple.  I value support in this ministry; the folks at buzzsprout respond quickly and cheerfully.https://www.buzzsprout.com/?referrer_id=1000177