Christina and I discuss a big question in two parts.  What can we do when the day has gone sideways and what can we do when we come unglued with our kids...or they come unglued with us?  We discuss the value of a willingness to repair.  2:55 - First steps to rescuing the day 11:18 - Our kids' desire to be connected to us 14:34 - Appropriate behaviour is a skill set17:19 - Relationship and walking alongside our children24:11 - The Can and Can't Change it Buckets 31:18 - Acknowledging our shortcomings and making repair 34:21 - The importance of prayer for your marriage 39:45 - Sorry is never sorry if we force it out of them