If you’re fed up with your own bullsh*t and ready for REAL change– this episode is for you. Most of the time we feel stuck and frustrated because we’re in our own way! Old patterns, habits and comforts keep us in the same low-self worth, boring and unfulfilling circumstances. Today Lacy, Janelle & Jessica share how to spot where you’re making excuses that are blocking you from connecting with the life you want. Learn about how childhood trauma leads to defense mechanisms as adults, neuroplasticity, brain chemistry and attachment styles! Remember, oftentimes pain is a portal for personal transformation. Enjoy! Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast In This Episode We Talk About:How to get out of your own way and manifest with Lacy, Jessica and Janelle!TBM’s specific checklist to spot when you’re getting in your own wayRecognizing patterns and passing testsThe psychology and neuroscience behind patterning and settlingNeuroplasticity, brain chemistry, attachment styles!Questions from the TBM communityThe importance of baby steps and small wins in the manifestation processHow childhood trauma leads to defense mechanisms as adultsDemystifying victimhood and core woundsHow to build and reinforce your trust musclePain as a portal for personal transformationNavigating toxic jobs and relationships! Resources: Text Us: +1-213-423-5226 - (texting is only for US, Canada, & Puerto Rico)Alexis Smart x TBM EXPANDED Flower RemedyTBM Manifestation Journal - NEW DROP AVAILABLE NOWGet Tickets to our Magnetic Meet Up on September 17th, 2022 in Los Angeles, CA In The Episode:Expanded x Ep. 193 - Finding Your Empowered Voice - The Process With JanelleExpanded x Ep. 197 - EXPLAINED Divorce and Relationships w. LMFT Janelle NelsonExpanded x Ep. 202 - EXPLAINED Unblocking with EMDR Therapist Janelle NelsonRecent study Lacy mentions on DepressionGabor Maté - Compassionate Inquiry TrainingIn The Realm Of Hungry Ghosts - Gabor Maté (book)When The Body Says No - Gabor Maté (book)Expanded x Ep. 204 - Getting to the Root of Anxiety with Ellen Vora, MDAtomic Habits - James Clear (book)Becoming The One - Sheleana Aiyana (book) Rising Woman IG Where To Find Us!@tobemagnetic@JessicaAshleyGill @jncounselingWholeness Collective Therapy Our Offerings:Looking To Start Your Membership? - Use code EXPANDED for $20 off your first month of The Pathway or $20 off any a la carte workshop.A La Carte - Not ready for a membership? Try an individual workshop with 3 months of access.The Basics Bundle - How To Manifest, Unblocked Inner Child & Unblocked ShadowUnblocked Inner Child Unblocked Shadow The Love Bundle - Unblocked Love & Relationships Reflection Mini-WorkshopUnblocked Money The Pathway - 12-month all-access membership includes ALL of our a la cartes + more!How To Manifest, Unblocked Inner Child, Unblocked Shadow, The Love Bundle, Unblocked Money+ The Daily Practice includes our Deep Imagining Library with over 18+ DIs+ Unblocked Boundaries + Unblocked Full Moon+ Uplevel - 3 in 1 includes Rut, Rock Bottom & Next Level workshops+ Monthly Supported Class+ Community Group to connect with fellow manifestors+ Automatic access to any new offering or DI that becomes available as well! Free Offerings to Get You StartedThe MotivationFree Clarity Exercise - Journal prompt + 1 Deep ImaginingExpanded Podcast - Manifestation 101  SubmitSubmit to Be a Process Guest