Why all bad behavior is a signal - and the different ways you can respond to turn it around

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Why all bad behavior is a signal - and the different ways you can respond to turn it around

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Jun 13, 2022

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Hard to handle, “bad” behavior comes under the lens in the first Hand in Hand Parent Club podcast.

Released:

Jun 13, 2022

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Titles in the series (25)

Discover powerful, respectful parenting tools you can use to work with your child's feelings, rather than against them, especially when their behavior gets hard or confusing. Join hosts Emily and Kathy for tools that parents feel great about using.

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Why all bad behavior is a signal - and the different ways you can respond to turn it around by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
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Is There A Way To Stop Tantrums And Crying?: Is There A Way To Stop Tantrums And Crying? What is the true purpose of crying, and why are we in such a rush to shut tears down? Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on pinterest When a child cries, a parent’s first instinct is to try and help them to […] by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
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How Can I Finally Stop My Child's Repetitive Annoying Behaviors?: Find yourself battling your child's same behaviors again and again? Discover how to change your response and shift the behavior. Listen now. by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
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Why Do Kids Get So Clingy And Needy After Parents Give Them More Attention?: Why Do Kids Get So Clingy And Needy After Parents Give Them More Attention? If you expect a child to go off happily and play after giving them some good attention, you maybe in for some disappointment. Here's why… Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on pinterest If you spend more […] by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
11 min listen
What should I say when my child is upset?: What should I say when my child is upset? Responding from the thinking brain versus reacting from the emotional system. Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on pinterest How do you feel when you child won't stop complaining about a playdate that didn't go their way? Or when they scream “I […] by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
16 min listen
How To Use Little Limits Stop A Child's Whining, Neediness & Pestering: How To Use Little Limits To Stop Whining & Pestering What these behaviors really mean, and how to see them off without blowing your top. Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on pinterest Whining… Pestering… Days when everything has to be “just right” for your child. These behaviors can be very […] by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
12 min listen
Bonus! This Is A Better Solution Than Self-Care For Parents: Bonus! These Ideas Work So Much Better Than Self-Care For Parents Get fast ways to refuel Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on pinterest Parents are asking: Should things be as hard as this? Shouldn’t I be able to keep on top of everything? Am I messing up? Parenting does feel […] by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
12 min listen
Surprise Cures For Arguing, Whining And Backtalk: Surprise Cures For Arguing, Whining & Backtalk Treating this verbal off-track behavior as defiance doesn't help it stop. Read on to learn what you can do instead. Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on pinterest Logic and negotiation are great skills for kids to possess. But when your child uses these […] by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
17 min listen
Three Steps To Setting Good, Effective Limits (Step 1): Three Steps To Setting Good, Effective Limits (Step 1) Emily and Kathy introduce step one of Hand in Hand’s 3-step strategy for setting limits: Listen, Limit, Listen. Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on pinterest Backtalk and power struggles aren’t fun for anyone. So it's easy to get stuck dancing around […] by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
16 min listen
Stop Threats And Bribes If You Want To Build More Cooperation: Stop Threats And Bribes If You Want To Build More Cooperation This connection-first approach is far more effective Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on pinterest Most parents don't intend to threaten or bribe. But it's easier to do than you may think. Take a look: “If you don’t tidy up […] by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
14 min listen
Eps 12: Why is It So Hard To Stop Yelling?: Why Is It So Hard To Stop Yelling? Is your parent template set to “yell” and “lose it” – and how can you de-program these go-to reactions? Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on pinterest You might think Hand in Hand tools sound great – on paper. In real life, getting […] by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
14 min listen
How To Set Limits Without Anger & Punishments (And still get things done): How To Set Limits Without Anger Or Punishments (And Still Get Things Done) Discover a powerful, playful way to dissolve power struggles Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on pinterest What if you had a way to quickly dissolve tension and set limits that felt good for you and your child? […] by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
14 min listen
Rebuilding Connections: How to Repair with Your Kids After Losing Your Cool: Making Repairs How to make apologies and rebuild connection after you lose it Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on pinterest There's an idea out there that a good parent is serene, caring, all-knowing-never-cross creature… It's such a fairytale fantasy. The reality really is so much more human. It's messy. It's awesome. It's […] by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
11 min listen
5 Ways To Finally Overcome Yelling: Five Ways To Finally Overcome Yelling What can you do in the moment to stop losing it? Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on pinterest As parents, we all want what's best for our children, but sometimes, and despite our best intentions, we find ourselves getting frustrated and raising our voices. […] by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
10 min listen
The guilt-free parent by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
9 min listen
How to shift the seriousness and stress of parenting and have more fun instead.: How to Shift Seriousness & Stress in Parenting And have more fun with your kids instead Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on pinterest It's natural to want to react quickly as a parent. Whether your child has spilled their juice all over the carpet, or they're refusing to do their homework, […] by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
11 min listen
Reset Your Day With Roughhousing: How Roughousing Can Reset Your Day Unplug & Play With Dr. Lawrence J. Cohen Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on pinterest In this episode, Emily and Kathy sit down with Dr. Lawrence J Cohen, a Nappa Gold-award winning author of Playful Parenting and a play therapist. Dr. Cohen is a […] by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
16 min listen
Finding the Fun: Finding The Fun Strategies for infusing fun and laughter into your daily life with kids. Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on pinterest When we approach parenting with a sense of playfulness, it can make all the difference. Play has the power to melt away tension, create a culture where mistakes […] by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
10 min listen
Does Birth Order Make A Difference?: Does Birth Order Make A Difference? How to Tailor the Hand in Hand tools with different age kids – With Summer Sheldon Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on pinterest This week Emily responds to a parent question: “Does birth order make a difference to how you use the Hand in […] by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
20 min listen
Helping Tweens and Teens Feel Heard: Helping Tweens & Teens Feel Heard Using the Hand in Hand Staylistening Tool with older kids Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on pinterest It's fairly easy to tell when a toddler's emotional system has taken over. Tantrums. A toddler will yell when they don't get the blue cup or can't […] by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
12 min listen
Keeping Connection Strong With Your Tween or Teen: Keeping Connection Strong With Your Tween or Teen Strategies That Bring Smiles & Joy With Kirsten Nottleson Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on pinterest Sometimes it feels like our tweens and teens are living on a different planet. How are we supposed to know exactly what they need from us? […] by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
18 min listen
Am I Doing This Right?: Am I Doing This Right? What to do if you feel stuck, freeze in the moment or second guess how you use the Hand in Hand Tools. Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on pinterest Am I doing this right? How do I know what to do? Why do I freeze […] by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
17 min listen
Parenting After Separation: Revolutionary Ideas to Support Kids Through Divorce: Parenting After Divorce Revolutionary ideas to support kids through separation & divorce Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on pinterest Today, Emily and Kathy are joined by Hand in Hand's founder Patty Wipfler, who shares her insights for parents on how to support their children when they have chosen to divorce. […] by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
24 min listen
What To Do When Your Child Is Hitting: What To Do When Your Child Is Hitting Understand the unseen fears that drive a child's aggression and stop it using nurturing supportive strategies Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on pinterest Emily and Kathy address a parent question from the surprised parent of a child who has started hitting out […] by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
17 min listen

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Keeping Connection Strong With Your Tween or Teen: Keeping Connection Strong With Your Tween or Teen Strategies That Bring Smiles & Joy With Kirsten Nottleson Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on pinterest Sometimes it feels like our tweens and teens are living on a different planet. How are we supposed to know exactly what they need from us? […] by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
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Rebuilding Connections: How to Repair with Your Kids After Losing Your Cool: Making Repairs How to make apologies and rebuild connection after you lose it Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on pinterest There's an idea out there that a good parent is serene, caring, all-knowing-never-cross creature… It's such a fairytale fantasy. The reality really is so much more human. It's messy. It's awesome. It's […] by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
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Finding the Fun: Finding The Fun Strategies for infusing fun and laughter into your daily life with kids. Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on pinterest When we approach parenting with a sense of playfulness, it can make all the difference. Play has the power to melt away tension, create a culture where mistakes […] by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
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How to shift the seriousness and stress of parenting and have more fun instead.: How to Shift Seriousness & Stress in Parenting And have more fun with your kids instead Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on pinterest It's natural to want to react quickly as a parent. Whether your child has spilled their juice all over the carpet, or they're refusing to do their homework, […] by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
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5 Ways To Finally Overcome Yelling: Five Ways To Finally Overcome Yelling What can you do in the moment to stop losing it? Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on pinterest As parents, we all want what's best for our children, but sometimes, and despite our best intentions, we find ourselves getting frustrated and raising our voices. […] by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
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Stop Threats And Bribes If You Want To Build More Cooperation: Stop Threats And Bribes If You Want To Build More Cooperation This connection-first approach is far more effective Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on pinterest Most parents don't intend to threaten or bribe. But it's easier to do than you may think. Take a look: “If you don’t tidy up […] by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
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How To Set Limits Without Anger & Punishments (And still get things done): How To Set Limits Without Anger Or Punishments (And Still Get Things Done) Discover a powerful, playful way to dissolve power struggles Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on pinterest What if you had a way to quickly dissolve tension and set limits that felt good for you and your child? […] by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
14 min listen
How To Use Little Limits Stop A Child's Whining, Neediness & Pestering: How To Use Little Limits To Stop Whining & Pestering What these behaviors really mean, and how to see them off without blowing your top. Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on pinterest Whining… Pestering… Days when everything has to be “just right” for your child. These behaviors can be very […] by The Hand in Hand Parent Club Podcast
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Why all bad behavior is a signal - and the different ways you can respond to turn it around

Why all bad behavior is a signal - and the different ways you can respond to turn it around

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Titles in the series (25)

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