Today’s episode is brought to you by Audible.com. One of the most powerful questions my sponsor has ever asked me, is “Can you love your unloveable parts?” Because the truth is, that recovery is about recovering our WHOLE selves, even our character defects and human shortcomings. That kinda tough to swallow right? But obviously nobody is perfect, so it’s silly to pretend we are. But how to we practice self love in the face of character defects, well one way to practice the ideas in a book called “Radical Self Acceptance, by Tara Brach.  I listen to this audiobook over and over because it has one of my favorite guided meditations on it, which I bookmarked in the app. Tarah’s voice is smooth and calming and listening to her speak makes me feel relaxed and peaceful. Not a bad way to feel right? And there’s no unwanted side effects like a hangover or STD. Just sayin. ODAAT Chat listeners can get this audiobook for free when you sign up for an audible subscription by visiting odaatchat.com and look for the Audible ad on the right hand side.   Welcome to Odaat Chat, my name is Arlina and I’ll be your host. In case you didn’t know, ODAAT stands for “one day at a time”. If you haven’t yet, don’t forget to subscribe on iTunes, or you can get new episodes delivered right to your inbox by signing up for the newsletter at odaatchat.com.   You might be wondering the purpose of the podcast, and what I can tell you is that besides wanting to clear up a lot of misconceptions about addiction and recovery, I also wanted to share the teachers, ideas and exercises that have helped me on my own journey over the last 24 years, some of which includes but is not limited to any 12 step program.   Today’s episode is with David Griggs. He is an attorney, actually he’s a legal super hero in my book because he handle a lot of sexual harassment cases for women, but his is also a soon to be published author! He took Anna David’s memoir book proposal class called “All the write moves”, got voted for the best proposal and won a meeting with a publisher, and he sold his book!   He’ll tell that story in the interview along with his addiction and recovery story. David talks about some of the trauma he experienced growing up, switching addictions from alcohol to weed, to sex and even video games and the effects it had on his life.