There are a million places to get sex advice. YouTubers will give you tips on oral. Cosmo will teach you some crazy move that requires props. Your friends may share their own secrets. But what’s something you never hear that will pay off even more? How real men like to be touched when you’re not in the bedroom. Don’t get me wrong, if you’re a master with his clothes off, it’s a tremendous asset. But what I’m about to share with you is what takes you from booty call to blushing bride.