What do you need to get in the mood for sex? Have a lively conversation? Be touched in a suggestive way? Put on something sexy…or, have your partner get dressed up for you?Today’s episode is all about arousal styles, and today, I’ll be looking at five. The science of sexual arousal is ever-evolving, but on this show I’m looking at some of the most common ways people get turned on (through conversation, visuals, touch, play or physical adventure), helping you ID what your style is, and what behaviors you can do in the moment to get it going. Kind of like love languages, but for sex. I’m also talking about the difference between arousal and desire, and, taking your questions! How to have sex when you’re stressed, anti-depressants numbing out your vulva, and if it’s OK to be more excited for masturbation than partnered sex. Show Notes:There Are 5 Arousal Styles. Which One Are You?Sex Up Your Love LanguageTell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex w/ Ian Kerner The Yes No Maybe ListYou’re Kinkier Than You Think, Part 1You’re Kinkier Than You Think, Part 2 See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.